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since we've been married..we have had issues..physical..emotional..everything bad..with the exception of cheating..has been committed against me..
gane5 gane5 22-25 21 Answers Jan 3, 2013 in Divorce

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With all due respect, how could you possibly expect a bunch of strangers who know nothing about you, your life or your marriage to meaningfully answer this question??

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because they know nothing about me..everyone who knows me or him..has a biased opinion..sometimes a person who knows little to nothing..is able to provide with something others have missed because of that biased opinion..get it?

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Yes, I really really do gane. Going through similar stuff myself but much further along- filed for divorce over two years ago and its still not done. Been a nightmare. But this is about you- listen, reading your "question", I feel as if you already know the answer. Everything bad is not worth saving. Its scary as its gets but well worth it because you deserve much, much better.
I have found out that we are always much stronger than we think we are.

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deep down we know the answer..and we know things won't get better no matter how much you hope..

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It's hard to say, with so little information.

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he's controlling..dislikes my family..doesn't seem to want to step up in our obstacles as a family

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Have you tried marriage counseling?

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Yeah you should, the others are done with him!

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If you haven't been cheated on yes.

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no cheating involved..

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Does he beat you?

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Not worth it.. Its like a broken glass..

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Well if you have no young children that might be traumatized and have their life become worse , do it . If you feel so ****** about it , just do it. If you are getting beat-up by him and still continue being with him then you are a victim and will be one for the rest of your life with him.

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we have a 5 month old son..with a congenital heart defect..no one sees the stress that is on my shoulders..or why I hesitate to leave him..first of all i don't know how long i have my son..and my marriage took a back burner position..but he keeps picking at me..and I might not be able to handle everything

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If there is violence evolved then your son will be more miserable having a violent father and experiencing violent scenes. If violence wasn't in the whole story then you could endure it for the child. But now , the divorce option is better for the child imo.

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involved*

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If its worth saving , why not ?

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that's a great question. Pick a good counselor first then pick a great lawyer

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my husband says we do not need a counselor..

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i totally read that answer wrong. yea you go see a counselor even if it's on your own and that way you'll be okay when you have to leave

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ignore my first response i read your reply wrong

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my ex does say all the time "if you would have said 'I'm leaving if we don't get some help' I would have gone to one" he's full of **** of course but maybe your husband isn't

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What else are marriages for?

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If both of you are willing to work on it, yes.

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Nope, no reason to be miserable.

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If you love your husband then you should make every possible attempt to save your marriage.

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If you have kids.

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I see your point - but with no info, I took a chance on my answer. Too many other relevant questions I agree.

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I have a son..with a heart condition..

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Nah, **** it

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