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Should I be annoyed about this?

Last night I cooked dinner for a two of my friends and one of their male friends...a man who has been wanting to meet me. I prepared meatloaf, mashed potatoes and gravy, green beans with mushrooms and bacon, and corn. I made an apple pie for dessert with ice cream. I had two nice bottles of wine, so overall, I thought it was a nice meal. I noticed that this man only ate meatloaf and potatoes and gravy...I asked him if he did not like veggies and he told me he only ate "fresh" veggies, not canned or frozen. Then, my friends left and this man was about to leave and he told me that he did not think we should go out again because of our differences and because one of my dogs was too big...he likes dogs, but only small ones. And my dogs never even came around...they were sleeping in my office and the door was closed...the man went into my office to look around and he woke them up. Is this man an a$$hole or am I too sensitive?

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    BamPow - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by BamPow Aug 13th, 2011 at 11:40AM

    The man is a walking sphincter. You shouldn't be annoyed. You should be thankful that he showed his true nature early enough to save you from wasting more than a meal on him.

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  1. B3lla01 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by B3lla01 Aug 14th, 2011 at 1:51AM

    He is a neanderthal. Send him a Thank You card for Staying Away From You!

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  1. MrsLalaninjacakes - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by MrsLalaninjacakes Aug 13th, 2011 at 11:34AM

    Well, looks like you got a get out jail for free card and he handed it to you on a plate.

    Thank your lucky stars, he sounds like a *****

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  2. bfbb19 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by bfbb19 Aug 13th, 2011 at 12:52PM

    My answer was already taken.He is a real A$$ Hole !!! And very rude !!!

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  3. justwonderingif - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by justwonderingif Aug 13th, 2011 at 12:36PM

    That man sounds like a total social misfit. You have every right to be annoyed, but really why bother--- he's not even worth the effort annoyance takes. I think a good laugh is what is needed here, and you're not laughing with him, you are clearly laughing AT him. lol

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  4. endeavorforever - 70+ years old - male

    Posted by endeavorforever Aug 13th, 2011 at 11:45AM

    I wished I was invited! I would have ate everything on the menu and walked your dogs!!

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  5. B3lla01 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by B3lla01 Aug 14th, 2011 at 1:51AM

    :)

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  6. Raoul6t9 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Raoul6t9 Mar 12th, 2013 at 6:03PM

    Short answer: *******!

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  7. northatlanta - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by northatlanta Aug 14th, 2011 at 11:37PM

    *******. Next question.

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  8. pvccat - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by pvccat Aug 14th, 2011 at 10:22PM

    HES AN *** HOLE - say goodbye and good riddance - oh and ask the big dog to bite him next time !

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  9. Bird79 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Bird79 Aug 14th, 2011 at 7:35PM

    That guy is a weirdo. I guess it is good he was straight up about not going further with what ever friendship/relationship which may have developed. Spares you more awkward moments.......

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  10. judderbunny - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by judderbunny Aug 14th, 2011 at 6:43PM

    Smiles --- It would appear that he is a self opinionated ******* --- but at least he is honest and tells it as he is -- So don't be oversensative and consider yourself lucky that you didn't waste any valuable time with him
    The dinner sounded just great by the way.

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  11. OrionsSword - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by OrionsSword Aug 14th, 2011 at 5:50PM

    if your friends ask how it went, tell them he exceeded your ******* size limit, being huge instead of petite, as you like them.

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  12. navyvet55 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by navyvet55 Aug 14th, 2011 at 5:46PM

    Would have had me at meatloaf, mashed potatoes and gravy and bacon, but green beans with mushrooms and bacon OMG are you kidding BACON sounds great but for him to to say only fresh Vegs is a bit of a insult, also Seems to me just rude , , As far as his small dog comment, honestly sounds like a mommy's boy to me.

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  13. NIGHTROSE - 18-21 years old

    Posted by NIGHTROSE Aug 14th, 2011 at 4:35PM

    WELL, CONSIDER UR SELF LUCKY NOT HAVING FURTHER RELATIONSHIP WITH THE GUY...WHY KEEP YOURSELF IN A BOX, WHEN U CAN BE UR FREE, BEAUTIFUL SELF WITH A MUCH BETTER MAN WHO ACTUALLY DESERVES U...YES, HE IS OUT THERE SOMEWHERE!
    TALK ABOUT UNGRATEFULNESS...A MEAL FIT FOR A KING!

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  14. patsypop - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by patsypop Aug 14th, 2011 at 3:45PM

    A tptal ***** that is all he is thank God he is now out of your life. You are so lucky to be rid of him. If i was in your house in place of him i would have eaten everything you made and be so grateful for it and even helped you with the washing up and then askef would you like to go for a walk with the Dogs.Hopefully you will not meet any more dickheads (******) like him again

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  15. ilovelacy - 18-21 years old

    Posted by ilovelacy Aug 14th, 2011 at 1:27PM

    *******

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  16. sheshe27 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by sheshe27 Aug 14th, 2011 at 12:51PM

    He sounds like a weirdo, don't worry about it!! I think you've had a lucky escape.

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  17. wickey - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by wickey Aug 14th, 2011 at 11:26AM

    You are not at all overly sensitive since he is a big what you called him.

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  18. BrunoDS - 31-35 years old

    Posted by BrunoDS Aug 14th, 2011 at 10:03AM

    Well actually this guy has a problem that is common in some people. He judged you based on trivial facts rather than actually get to know you as a person. For him it will be very hard to find a women because rather than looking for a great woman with beautiful personality he's looking for a perfect home with perfect food and perfect pets.... :-)

    Sounds to me more like he was considering moving in and realised he would not like to move in because the house was not suited to his specific tastes.

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  19. ChocSwurl - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by ChocSwurl Aug 13th, 2011 at 12:13PM

    I wish more men showed their true colors like this from the start. Sounds like a jealous douche. Your too good for him and he knows that.

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  20. LoneBlogger - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by LoneBlogger Aug 13th, 2011 at 11:49AM

    Total jerkwad. Anyone who criticizes a delicious meal like that isn't worth another thought. Be glad that you found out early on and didn't waste any more time on him. You deserve much better.

    I'd be annoyed, but I wouldn't dwell on it.

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