Should I be patient, try one more time, or give up on the only real life friend I had left in this world?
A friend of 3 1/2 years just suddenly stopped answering my texts and phone calls over a week ago. The last time we spoke, I was a bit down after hearing some unrelated bad news, but couldn't talk to her about it because she brought another friend with her. I didn't feel comfortable talking deeply personal issues in front of this new person. My friend seemed to think I was upset over her bringing her friend, which I assured her I wasn't the case, just that I had other things on my mind. She gave no indication that she was mad, but now I wonder.
It's like she's dropped off the face of the planet and I get NO response. We don't have any mutual friends, so I can't contact them to see if she's ok. Should I A) try calling her again and just explain the situation I was facing to her voicemail, B) Tell her I think it's pretty low to treat "close" friends this way, D) wait and hope she comes around, or C) just give up on 3 years of friendship and walk away?
I could really use advice.