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I've been dating this guy since mid October we've been out less than a dozen times yet when we hang out it feels a lot more. He hasn't made any moves or said anything and he knows I like him. I don't know if i should just bring up the topic of where we stand or keep waiting. We don't talk all the time so sometimes it feels like I have to make the effort. My logic is he has to like me to an extend to ask me out and still see me. But its almost like he is just sitting there and i have to do all the initiating to hang out.
acionna acionna 26-30, F 8 Answers Jan 27, 2012

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Straight up now tell me, do you really wanna love me forever? Ask him. If you are putting most of the work into it now, I don't think it would be wise to pursue things further. Two people should provide a meaningful contribution to the common enterprise. If you are the only one contributing now, do you really think things will change?

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i see your point at the same time the way he behaves when we are together is so contradictory he makes so much effort. very confusing and frustrating

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usuall guys do not lik it wen we ask straight up, isnt ther any non-verbal u cn do. maybe he was hurt befor so he is tryin to play it safe untill he is sure. i say a little patience pse. thats hw me and my current partner started, bt eventually he said those 3 little words i had been waitin to hear

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I don't think a guy can really set "it" straight....it's naturally curvy.

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are you sure he's straight?

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well i dont think a gay guy would do the things we do other than the fact we haven't slept with each other. which me not doing that is a big deal meaning i really like him

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You know him well enough by now to ask him straight out where the relationship is going...and you should ask, otherwise you'll be in limbo and life is too short for the guessing game. As far as not talking much,is it a comfortable silence? I think a key indicator of two people in a happy relationship is they can NOT talk and that's ok,, they are comfortable and don't feel a need to fill every gap.Good luck on this...I hope it turns out the way you want! :)

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oh when we are together its comfortable silence i meant as in when we are not together. thanks! :)

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Us guys are stupidity dum dums. Yeah brave up, and put it out there. I know I sometimes will try the more diplomatic approach in efforts to be sensitive and less aggressively perceived. Ankle.dragging isnt what really is happening, its really an internal battle of not jumping out and groping. The heals draggn usually is us kicking our own ***** down a notch so we don't collect a charge.

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