Should i break up with him?

ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and i do love him but it feels like he doesnt love me anymore, whenever i need him there for me he's never there and even though hes going through a hard time in college it'd still be nice for him to be there for me. he starts fighting with me over stupid things and we never have anything to talk about anymore. what should i do?welcome=t2

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I know exactly how you feel. I am with the same guy for over 2 years and he has never given me the committment. and now he is mean to me all the time. I wish I could say you should leave him, but I really would be a hypocrite if i did. :-) good luck, if u want to talk ever i am here for you!!

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unicorn59	Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 4:22PM You are way too young to be putting up with this kind of stuff already... If he picks fights, and doesn't let you know, by his actions, that he loves you back.....he doesn't deserve yours. Rated: +1Vote for this!
BellaFairy	Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 4:34PM If you dont break up with him, eventually he will with you. That is what his actions are communicating. Rated: +1Vote for this!
sameswag	Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 4:39PM DUHHHHHH dump him. Jesus... Is that so difficult? He obviously doesn't love you even if you have feelings for him. Life isn't fair. Don't try to be fair with him. You are too young to deal with that crap. LLLLLLOOOOOSSSSEEEEE him. Gah... Rated: +1Vote for this!
tashad	Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 4:50PM Well it seems like you both need each other...maybe you should talk to him about that...and TRY to be there for each other...not just you not just him but both of you and see how it goes... if he still hasn't change...at least u know u tried...so the last thing u have to do is leave him...and find a better a guy...a guy who will ALWAYS be there for you no matter what. Rated: +1Vote for this!
ashax	Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 6:58PM do what your heart says to do. if it means you get hurt, then so be it, because chances are, you're already hurt as it is. if you want to work it out with him, then try. but you also need to tell him how you're feeling; he isn't psychic. communication is key, and it sounds like you two aren't communicating. i'm not one to talk, though. i'm sorta in the same boat. Rated: +1Vote for this!
waitingforgodot	Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 9:05PM when it works, it really works if it's this way in college, wait 'til real life happens with a job, bills, kids, stress, etc. or worse, no job, bills, kids, etc. Move on; there are many better suited guys out there, millions of them and enjoy the search Rated: +1Vote for this!
kjett	Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 9:11PM Sounds like the two of you are moving in different directions. Perhaps have a "talk" and see how he feels about the situation. Lay it all out on the table and decide mutually. Rated: +1Vote for this!
eharrison911	Posted Jun 5th, 2009 at 6:03PM tlk to him Rated: +1Vote for this!

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