Should I call him? It's 2:54 AM Boyfriend help? !
So, my boyfriend has been pretty distant for this past week. Idk what's going on. We haven't really talked. No phone calls, FaceTime or texts. I texted him , called him and FaceTimed him back on Mon, but he didn't respond. I called him two days later and asked why he hung up on me when I told him to wait, I had to do something. I'd be right back and he told me I was taking too long, he's never done that before. Like the week before that he went out with one of his co-workers, they went to dinner and a movie. I got upset, he hadn't texted me all day. He failed to tell me they were going out. He didn't get back in until 3am, because I saw his tweets. So I phoned him around 4am. I wasn't going to call, but I was livid.He starts bitching at me. Last night we didn't FaceTime because he had school work and we sent like 2 texts to each other. I didn't respond to his last msg, it was no need I'm responding to. That was around 12am. Then today he texted me saying “hey Wyd” & never responded
7 Answers to "Should I call him? It's 2:54 AM Boyfriend help? !"
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No honey, I think you should drive over to his house and knock on his door. (I'm being serious.) And do NOT call him first!
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I wish I could!! Lol But he lives 2 hours away from me! I'm 18 and a sophomore in college and he'll be 21 in like 2 weeks!
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God no.
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Don't call. I think you shouldn't call or text him for a couple of days to see if you ever bother to cross his mind causing him to call or text you first.. and then one day when you have a day with no classes drive to his house and surprise him.
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Stop calling him period. Let him call you. All this middle of the night calling, texting, facebooking, facetiming is getting overblown. You are squeezing his independence from him and he is rebelling. I don't blame him I would too. Let him desire a relationship with you instead of being commanded to inform you on every move he makes. He probably would like to have a girlfriend and some peace instead of a mother asking him why he didn't call, text, write, send smoke signals, etc. Chill out!
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Ugh, I guess you're right. I just have a fear of being cheated on. I have trust issues. And he lives 2 hours away. So when he doesn't text me or call me it just makes me wonder. That's all. Communication is the key in a successful relationship, but I will learn to calm down! Lol
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You have an obsession with the fear and you are letting that override your common sense. You will drive the guy away if you don't trust him.
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No. You'll just **** him off.
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don't call him, its late.
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Posted by lifesanadventure Jul 13th, 2012 at 1:59AM
as a guy it sounds to me like he might be keeping his options open and is distancing himself. You both really need to sit down and talk. Wish you the best.
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Reply by TheSparksFly Jul 13th, 2012 at 2:03AM
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