Should I call/text my distant boyfriend or should I wait for him to contact me first?
My boyfriend is dealing with a lot of personal problems. Problems I'm aware of because he used to talk about them with me. We have been dating 3 months and we are in a long distance relationship since I moved away to college. I'm 22, he's 33.
Two weeks ago, when he came to visit, we had a small conflict, which was my fault (it was silly). I apologized. We moved on, but a day after he left, he started distancing himself. He says that he went on sleeping medication. He says he feels weird, awkward, and doesn't know what's wrong with him. The argument we had was brought up again, and I apologized again. Very recently I asked him if he felt different about me, he said yes but that he still loves me. This made me really sad. He said that he is waiting for things in his life to sort out and that he is not invested in the relationship like he used to. Not one time has he asked me how I feel or how I am doing. I sent him a text yesterday saying I'm always here for him, but he never replied.