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My boyfriend is dealing with a lot of personal problems. Problems I'm aware of because he used to talk about them with me. We have been dating 3 months and we are in a long distance relationship since I moved away to college. I'm 22, he's 33. Two weeks ago, when he came to visit, we had a small conflict, which was my fault (it was silly). I apologized. We moved on, but a day after he left, he started distancing himself. He says that he went on sleeping medication. He says he feels weird, awkward, and doesn't know what's wrong with him. The argument we had was brought up again, and I apologized again. Very recently I asked him if he felt different about me, he said yes but that he still loves me. This made me really sad. He said that he is waiting for things in his life to sort out and that he is not invested in the relationship like he used to. Not one time has he asked me how I feel or how I am doing. I sent him a text yesterday saying I'm always here for him, but he never replied.
anitabb26 anitabb26 18-21 6 Answers Nov 9, 2012 in Struggles

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focus on ur current life if he ever loved u he will come back soon if he didn`t don`t cry over him just forget about him and u will be fine<br />
by the way long-distance relationships don`t work for most people ( It`s a lie ) so don`t feel bad a bout it u have got ur whole life on front of u so enjoy it

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That's what I'm doing right now. I often find myself thinking about it but I'm trying. Thank you for your response

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Let him be the one to make the next move. Don't keep pushing for one, it will only push him back further. When he contacts you, maybe set up a time where you both are able to sit down face-to-face and have a real conversation to see where you are both at. Hopefully you both are willing to work it out. If not, then it was not meant to be. As difficult as that is. <br />
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I am in a similar situation, I am getting how you are feeling. I'm in a LDR and recently learned that my boyfriend is not sure about our relationship, as am I. Just remember, whatever happens is meant to happen for a reason.

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The next time we will maybe see each other is thanksgiving, I'm going back home. It has been really hard for me, because before I met him, I was in a bad relationship. He pretty much got me out of it. We spoke on the phone a few days ago about this, and when I asked him wanted to break things off (I was crying but I was trying to hide it. I think he noticed anyway), he said no. It's all very confusing and exhausting. He changed way too quickly in way too little time

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Just wait...if he really loves you he will call your or text you.

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He is done with you. Sounds harsh but just laying it out.

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