Should I continue letting my boyfriend stay with me?
Relatiolship-wise ' don't love him or anything, but we're both recent grads and I've been very lucky to get a good job right out of college and a nice place to stay. I invited him to stay with me because he didn't like being home, and I've helped him apply and edit his resume and cover letters. It's been 4 months now, and whenever we feel like we have a lead, it seems to get us nowhere. He's also very pessimistic about this and I understand he feels discouraged but now he's also losing hope., and I feel like I'm not able to enjoy my new-founded life.
My family doesn't know he's here, but now my cousin who I'm very fond of wants to visit me for a week. A part of me thinks that this would be a good excuse to be independent once my bf leaves ( I don't plan on inviting him back ), but I feel bad that I am being selfish. Also, I feel I may be a bit co-dependent since I'm new to this area and he's all I know well.
My cousin may also in visit 4 months but I don't know if I shud tel him