If you feel it then its happening, ive learned youve just got to accept that your not the favourite one and dont let it eat you up. people are selfish and parents have their favourites although they shouldnt and people like to just please themselves all the time, thats just life and people, its just the way it is.
No it's not selfish at all. Really, I know how you feel. :/ *pats you on the back*
Not selfish at all.
As a guy, I don't think it's a big issue. I would never want to go shopping with my mam. lol
But on a serious note, I think you are being a bit too delicate about this. You can spend time with her in others ways that don't involve spending her money.
I think you are fully justified in your feelings, I get in a lot of fights with my mom, because I feel like she favors my brothers.
Your not being selfish, you had looked forward to one on one time with your mum. It's natural to feel sad, I hope your whole day is not ruined. Do something special for yourself, you deserve to be kind to yourself.
I'm sorry, I can tell it meant a lot to you. Life sure does not seem fair sometimes.
I'd talk to her and explain how I felt about the whole situation.
How old is your sister?
Ok, IDK if tis will help but when my Mom seemed to pay more attention to something or someone else when I was growing up, I just concentrated on myself. Does your Mom do this all the time? If she does, then I'd discover self love.
I agree. It's almost like being your sister's shadow. It'll get better with time. Do you have any older cousins or Aunts you can hang out with to make your mom feel the same as you?
Not selfish. Everyone needs their own personal time with one that they value.