Should I flake on this girl?
This girl flaked on me multiple times because she is always "tired." But she is never tired to do things she wants to do. Not even joking. This weekend, she actually wants to go to church and hang out only because another friend of ours is coming to visit. Should I be the better person and just suck it up? Or should I be a flake like her?
4 Answers to "Should I flake on this girl?"
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This is what I would do,go through with the plans and make them your last with her.Just say no next time and find new friends that do not treat you that way.
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Some girls are just like this and they need a lap dog of some sort.
May be worth it in the long term if you are happy fulfilling this role.
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I'd tell her straight up that I didn't want to be friends with her, since she treats you like a back up plan and you end up wasting your time making plans with her when you could be spending time setting up activities with people who actually follow through.
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Posted by aprilriver Aug 23rd, 2012 at 10:54AM
I would go and be honest. Tell her that you considered not going because of how she makes you feel. I find that people that can handle honesty are worth knowing and people that freak out when you are just being honest are not worth staying around because they suck the energy out of you and I don't have time for that.
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