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Should I go for it?

Okay, so there is this guy, and he will be named Clay and this girl, who will be named Emma and they used to date, me and Emma used to be friends, fairly good, but never super super close, and Clay and i were always friends. Clay and Emma began to date. They dated for about 9 months, and Emma broke up with Clay because Emma wasn't ready for a relationship anymore. Clay tells me he likes me, and i liked him. I chose not to go out because i didn't want to deal with the possibility of breaking "Girl Code" but now, 2 months after me and Clay had a "thing" he likes me again, and we might go out, but i need to know if i would be breaking girl code by doing this. By dating Clay, who is Emma's ex, but me and Emma are not friends anymore, we used to be. And may i mention, that Emma is now dating someone new.

I'm not 100% sure about my feelings for Clay yet, and I just found out he is moving next summer. Should I continue to flirt with him, or maybe just stop all together?

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    holywren - 51-55 years old

    Posted by holywren Nov 10th, 2012 at 8:19PM

    Wait a second here.....this was a show called "Friends"

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  1. Blizzards - 13-15 years old - female

    Reply by Blizzards Nov 10th, 2012 at 8:28PM

    XD

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  1. whoflungpoo - 13-15 years old - male

    Posted by whoflungpoo Nov 10th, 2012 at 8:41PM

    do what you want, **** what other ppl think and forget "codes" its just more social bs to put up with...do what u want to do.

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  2. MichelleHoward - 36-40 years old

    Posted by MichelleHoward Nov 10th, 2012 at 8:33PM

    Flirt and have fun, but look for a real relationship with a guy that is going to stay local...if that's what you want...a relationship.

    As for girl code, there is only a code if you are friends.

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  3. PrincessLadybug - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by PrincessLadybug Nov 10th, 2012 at 8:30PM

    I dunno, should you?

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  4. Blizzards - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by Blizzards Nov 10th, 2012 at 8:28PM

    dude whats more imporetent?

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