Stay in a loving home and help her from a far.
Sometimes, even when it is hard for us, staying away from a bad situation is the best thing not only for you but for the person who created it; your mom. I feel very deeply for you--those emotional ties can be very, very strong. But staying with them will send the unspoken message to your mother that the situation is acceptable, and it is not. Your mother's heart is bigger than her head at this point. There may come a day when she needs a mature relationship to lean on to get herself out of this mess, and if you stay out of that environment and stay in the one you're in now, you may very well turn out to be that mature person. But you won't develop as a mature person as effectively if you move in with them, and then down the road you might not be the person she will need you to be. By making a wise decision and helping yourself emotionally at this point, you may be saving her in the future. That's love.
Your mother is in a situation she created for herself and needs to learn her own lesson. <br />
Stay where you are.
STAY WHERE YOU ARE, IT'S A BETTER ENVIRONMENT. YOU CAN STILL HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR MOM & BROTHER BUT YOU ALSO GOTTA TAKE CARE OF YOU. YOU CAN VISIT, BUT YOUR MOM'S AN ADULT, SHE NEEDS TO KNOW WHAT IS BEST FOR HER, YOUR BROTHER, & YOU. LOVE DOESN'T MEAN BEING PHYSICALLY PRESENT ALL THE TIME. PRAY FOR HER & FOR YOU.
stay where you are, it is for the best
you have to do what in your best interest at this point, living with your mom and her addicted friend will not make the situation better. be her shoulder to ean on for moral support, attend when she calls, and help her in the way you know how
Stay in the loving environment. You can always visit your mother.
you will always have your mother even if she doesnt meet your standards, but too many people throw away a good chance to have something they cant understand..