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Should I jump the fence and go with my heart or except fate? Closed question too soon, still seeking advice!?

Thanks to all the wonderful support so far, these are all things I need to hear as I make difficult decisions about my life. I should add that yes, the feelings are still mutual and going strong between me and my "soulmate." Just last week I confessed my feelings to her for the 1st time, this was sooo hard to do. Anyone who thinks that sexual orientation is a choice has no idea how hard it is to live like this, its a state of confusion between your heart and head. The only way out is acceptance, I hope I get there soon, my "soulmate" is very patient with me. Thanks again to everyone that has given such caring and supportive advice, it keeps me from going backwards toward the controling man/doctor that has had a grip on me for so long (3yrs). It is so much easier to deny my feelings for her and do what society deems the "right thing to do", I struggle with this daily!!
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barney62
Posted Jul 19th, 2009 at 11:11AM
Go with your heart. I lost my soul mate and I've never been the same since.
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keiffers
Posted Jul 19th, 2009 at 11:11AM
Oh hell my friend, sounds like you might need some more time to figure this dimela out. Take your time. is hubby capable of marriage support? Please talk to him or a proffesionsl. Dont jump ship. You got us E.P. friends worried.
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melancholyme
Posted Jul 19th, 2009 at 11:11AM
yes... however i myself is in the threshold of two choices.. i don't know where to set my foot..
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apolo
Posted Jul 19th, 2009 at 11:25PM
True love comes ones in a life time, don't matter who says what me and my wife are struggling poor people but our love binds as and no one can brake that special bond, follow your hart, and don't ever look back. love is beautiful go with it before it is to late. Good luck.
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rainbowbright123
Posted Jul 19th, 2009 at 10:51AM
Jump the fence girl and find happiness.
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RedDragon0214
Posted Jul 19th, 2009 at 11:25PM
Life is too short to let yourself be ruled by fear and concern over the thoughts of others. You are not responsible for anyone but you and I think it's much better to regret something that I made than to regret a decision that I didn't make. You have the power to choose your own destiny don't let your husband or people who don't know you or your struggle control your life.
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