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We started dating 3 yrs ago. Everything was perfect. We ended up moving in together after dating for 2 mths. He had told me he hadn't dated anyone for a year, but that he had lied. He only lied, because it was a habit. He lied all of the time, it seemed. I got pregnant. He lost his job. He forced me to get an abortion, then disappeared a few days before I did it. He told me that he loved me, but he couldn't handle me. 3 months later, he came back, and said that he was just scared, because everything moved so fast. He said it was all his fault, and that nothing was mine. 2 weeks later, I was pregnant. His grandparents had a house to give us, but it fell through. He lied for 3 mths about having a job. 2 wks before the baby was born, he left, and said I had to give her up for adoption. I didn't. He came back 2 mths later. We've been together for 1 yr. He has lied to me in that time about jobs and another girl(online). He wants to fix things, but keeps telling me that I have to change. ?

If there is a need for you to "fix" a relationship or one another you do not share unconditional love. There will always be issues between you two. And have you read your question back to yourself hun? He has lied the entire time you have been together, he has ditched you when you needed him the most. Is this how you wish to continue? And what about what that teaches your daughter? Would you want her to grow up thinking this is how men are supposed to treat women? I am not being judgemental just giving you some things to seriously think about.