Should I leave him?

When you ask the question it is the answer. And you don't love him--you're addicted to him. You can't love someone who gives you nothing. Stay with him forever-no one cares. It's your life. You want to change than do it. Too scared? Then shut up and stay with the bore that you think you love. But, if you realize that life is just days and months and years then you can make a change and put yourself first and more importantly your child. No child needs that as a role model. Some woman before you who was too scared to leave raised the boy that you are now with. Look at it from a different angle and imagine your child being that--cause that's what you're making.

I think he sounds like he is suffering from depression

perhaps he needs a kick in the butt to get motivated into doing something about it. Tell him is he loves you he should seek help for himself.

then again he might be a lazy sob

i know i am only 14, but listen gf.
if he won't shower, how could you hug him.
if he won't brush his teeth, how could you kiss him.
if he won't get an job, how can he be a man.
please for the sake of your son.
DROP THAT SORE LOSER!

YES U SHOULD NEED HAVE TO MUST IMMEDIATELY LEAVE

Props to notg. She is right on. sounds like your married to a gorilla. But love has to work for both of you. Plus a child seeing this from dad, shame on him. And shame on you also, your son is all that u should be cocerned with. You'll be better off just you and your son. Hoping he'll come around is holding you back.you'll see. A single mother doing what she has to do on her own is what i think of when you ask me who my heros are. they get it done. so will you. good luck.

Why wont he get a job? Doesn't he have responsibilities at home? like mowing the lawn or washing the car?? He sounds like he's too Dependant on you and that hes just being lazy and is already used to his life being that way. I think if you leave him,he would wake up and make a change....but then it will be too late. So i suggest you tell him you need time away from home to clear your mind and in that time he should find a job and then when hes responsible and mature enough then you can work on other aspects of your marriage.

I wander if you both feel love towards each other..why you both are not able to express in the more effective way. Some of the people I have seen take their partners for granted.
I would still suggest don't leave him. am sure that will not make you happy either. Good Luck!

Yeah, I'd say you should leave him too. You deserve better than this, and somewhere inside you, you know that or you wouldn't be asking :)

Yes, because its only going to harm your son if you don't. Go find a good man. Or just kick him out.
If I wasn't married I'd say come knock on my door.

He needs serious help, he sounds depressed, leaving him might make him worse, if you love him seek professional help, throw a bucket of soapy water over him, when ever he does not shower and a bucket of ice cold water when he sleeps all day.

From our contact I know you to be a wonderful and lovely woman and you deserve a great life with a loving and caring husband so leave him