not sue what you mean by emotional affair, maybe he has been a shoulder to cry on, not sure.
If he wasn't physically unfaithful maybe you should give him another chance.
An emotional affair is a betrayal as much as a sexual affair. Marriage therapy is probably the answer. The bigger issue is why he had the affair. Personally I think you can save your marriage with professional intervention.
When trust is gone.... you know the rest babe. Keep strong xx
LEAVE THE FCKER!
How did you find out about this affair because this is probably a good indicator of weather you can trust him again.
I have a similar problem but I'm on the opposite end. We've been married for +10 years. Communication and finances are good but sexuality is almost a zero. Don't know what to do myself. I'm constantly looking at other women. But, I've shared so much with her over the years it's hard to just break it off.
An emotional affair? So he really fell for her, huh?
If you can't live with this I guess you will have to move on unless there was a lot of counseling on both sides to show that now he is ready to work on his problems dealing with infidelity.
I am sure moving on would be the easiest thing to do.