you should not
Cut him out of your life. Loving someone doesn't make it ok to allow them to walk all over your trust.Enough is enough. Look what he wanted for the baby..his fun and games came first. How terrible.
Let that dumbass go!
You're a lot better then that!
As for the "abortion" if you got that life, aborted because of this man then **** no if he's worth any more of your time. If that was me and my man/ex said get an abortion, HELL TO THE NO. So tbh you shouldn't have gone through with it if it wasn't your decision.. & if he talked you in to it or whatever then he isn't worth your love etc.
You need to start focusing on yourself, rather then this douchebag.
He sounds like a total *******. What's wrong with you? Why put up with such an abusive and lying **** when there's so many quality guys out there? This is what I can't understand about some women.
Tell him to **** off for good, immediately! And so what if he "freaks out?" He's just playing you. Don't worry, you'll live without him and you'll be much better off.
I don't get it. What's in it for you?
I did not get more than 6 sentences in and my gut said.. dump his *** and move on. Unless you want to be abused.. that is. If you don't then find a woman support group and fix what ever is "not right" in your own head, that allowed you to even put up with him in the first place. This is not about him, it is about you. Fix you, and it fixes the "Him" too.
Love yourself. Respect yourself. Get some therapy.
Why, oh why are you wasting valuable time from your life being pushed & shoved by someone who obviously wants his cake & yours too ?
My suggestion is........stop having the " I can't live" pity party, get some anger at being used in this way and raise the red flag warning to yourself when he decides he's done dangling you again, for the time being until next time.
You should indeed let him go. He sounds awful.
Sure. Stay with him if you like being treated like that.
Really? Because the way you wrote it, it seems like you were fairly bitter.
He sounds like a monster. You don't need him. You need a kind and considerate man.
you need to cut off all contact with this freak. and find a man who truly appreciates you. you deserve the best so accept nothing but the best.