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Should I let my stepson play fight/pillow fight with me?

He's a 10 year old boy!
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If he's a young kid, nothing wrong, he wants a father-like relationship. Consciously or not.
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 5:13PM
no. keep your boundaries tight and in line
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 4:45PM
how old is your stepson?
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 4:47PM
Yes, It a good way to connect with children.
However, their innocents a pure really harness time
and energy.
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 4:58PM
not if he's a teenager. it's ALL about sex to a teenager.
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 4:58PM
ice cream rules. but pillow fights are fun. let him know yor fun XD

my real parent never played with me. i wish they had.. he will enjoy it.
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 5:54PM
Eh, probably not. You're a parent, not a peer. Help him to harness that energy into more productive things that don't include "violence", if just pretend.
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 6:38PM
yeah well you should start it off and do invite other kids like his age to finish it it might be a enjoyable memory for him he is a child
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 6:54PM
Sure...Why not.....

I have not peeked at your profile yet...So I do not know if you are male or female....But at 10...He is still a little kid...and he wants to play with you like one....So join in on the fun....Grab one of yours...Hide behind the door....And when he comes around to find you....Let him have it...and run......But make sure that he does catch you time to time...Or else the fun just runs right out of it

Best of luck to you
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Posted Jul 10th, 2009 at 9:48PM
I would say that is okay. I wouldn't do it for many more years, but it is okay for now.
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Posted Jul 11th, 2009 at 2:15PM
yup
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Posted Jul 13th, 2009 at 12:36AM
Yes'm you should. If you intend for this family to be apart of you in the long run then you have to form bonds, and while not trying to be a 'replacement mom' you should interact in fun, personal ways so you can form a healthy relationship in this context.
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Posted Jul 13th, 2009 at 3:59PM
Why not, I do it with my grandchildren, it helps to build a good relationship which will be of enormous benefit in the next few years!
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