Should I listen to my sister? Could she be right?
I've been involved with a guy who says a lot that he loves me, and even though we've fallen out over certain issues, we're still trying. A few days ago, he asked me if I wanted to come over in the holidays and I said yes. Before he liked me, he liked 2 other girls in the space of about 2 weeks, and I told my older sister how he realised a little bit later that he liked me and one of the other girls at the same time. She thinks he chose me because the other girl rejected him even though he explained he didn't. The guy has had a history with violence and has been in a gang but said he's changed and found God. My sister's worried that rival gang members could hurt me, and that the guy could take advantage and play games with me or try to sleep with me. I told her how he wants to stay a virgin until marriage, but she thinks he's just saying it so I'll think he's sweet. She thinks I'm really naive, but she's had a lot of experiences with guys. Should I listen to her and not go?