Should I send him a "Happy Birthday" message?
Earlier this year, I dated a guy for about four months. We were never "official" though.
About two months ago we both just sort of let things fizzle out. I felt like I was 'initiating' everything (he was quite shy and inexperienced) and when I stopped, he didn't start. It took about 8 dates just to get to the first kiss!
I was initially kind of annoyed that he didn't continue to keep in contact / or at least say that he didn't feel things weren't working out (or whatever) but honestly, I'd become a little bit bored by his passive approach and was a little bit relieved, only because I didn't really know how to discuss it with him.
Anyway, it's his birthday today (according to Facebook). We haven't seen or spoken to each other for around 2 months. Do you think I should text him to say "Happy Birthday"? Or would a facebook message be better? I think it would be the nice thing to do.