Should I send the ex-girlfriend the old cards and letters she sent years ago?
That sounds mean and bitchy and maybe insecure right? My husband doesn't really want them, he just saves everything. But the reason I want to send them back is because they didn't actually "date" very long in their relationship, they were "friends" at the request of my guy. (I wasn't in the picture then). Carol continued to profess her love as a "friend"...even calling him her very best friend (hello, hinting at the advice, marry your best friend). She wrote him over and over they would be friends for life, soulmate friends, etc. They fell out of touch over 10 years ago. She blew off a visit (they did not live close), and he didn't hear from her much after that. He moved on..he's married with a child. From what info we have, she doesn't seem to have built much of a life. She doesn't accept any contact on linked in or facebook. Ok, she never got over him.
But she also promised lifelong friendship. I want her to see her own words...or did she lie about her friendship?