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Should I start ignoring someone I have feelings for if they don't feel the same way? ...Even if we're good friends?

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Asked By: lovesong7 18-21, F  8 months ago

If I can't have him then I don't want to stay friends...the problem is that he's a nice person and I'm afraid of hurting his feelings. What should I do?

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    louisthepearl - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by louisthepearl Aug 24th, 2012 at 3:48PM

    you sure you can't? If you really love him I'd have thought you'd want to remain in contact.

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  1. lovesong7 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by lovesong7 Aug 24th, 2012 at 3:49PM

    Well I've liked him for 3 years and he's never liked me back :/

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  2. louisthepearl - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by louisthepearl Aug 24th, 2012 at 3:52PM

    maybe you should just accept that your relationship will forever be platonic, no matter how hard that may be to come to terms with. I can understand that it's upsetting but are you really up to cutting off all contact with a person you've had feelings for for three years? It can be a hard thing to do.

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  1. crazychica369 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by crazychica369 Dec 3rd, 2012 at 7:31PM

    Sounds like you are in a pickle hmmm,try to control your feelings why should you lose him as a friend?

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  2. bongus - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by bongus Aug 24th, 2012 at 3:50PM

    doesn't sound like real love if you can't be friends.

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