COMMUNICATION is a funny thing ; it helps us get answers ! Try TALKING to this guy about the two of you and your relationship or the lack there of ... tell him how you feel and see what happens .... You could be surprised .
How about sitting down with him in person and TALKLING ... no yelling, screaming, crying ... just two ADULTS having an intelligent conversation about their relationship ... MIGHT even be better than Facebook ...
You'll never know unless you say something
Well what did he say?
Oh I'm sorry :'( I know how that feels
If You Let him know he might feel the same as You, <br />
By telling him You Can Enjoy Each Other as You Do Now <br />
Your Relationship Can and May Grow and Get Even Better<br />
If Things Don't Work Out You Can Still Be Friends But Will Never Regret For Trying ! <br />
GO FOR IT ! PLEASE ! And Don't Regret Waiting ! Good Luck ! <br />
Hope Things Work OUT As YOU Wish ! <br />
Would Love To HEAR Your Results..............
Go for it... j -I think will be pleasantly surprised ..
Bring up a hypothetical story. Give him the "One of my friends" and explain how you feel. Then sum it up with "You're a guy, from a guy perspective how do you see that working out?" <br />
If he has half a brain he'll know you're talking about you an him and answer accordingly.
Might work, but I wouldn't bet on it! Many young (and older) men aren't that cluey about relationships, good communications and feelings.
Give it time. If you are meant to be together... You will.
you are leaving parts of your story out
Start hanging out again.. and do "Secret" dates... like offer to go see a movie, make it a romantic one but act like its nothing to him, when really inside its a big deal to him. You have to spell your feelings out to a guy sometimes.. but after hanging a few times, you might as well then ask him what he woudl do if you said you liked him a lot. it's only gonna go two ways.
It Sounds Like He's Playing You !
You May want to Say to him if You did That to him how would he feel ?
Yes He has feelings for You but having another girl friend says it ALL
PLEASE consider hanging around other guys for your own good because it sounds like he's Playing You !
If HE say You with another guy then will HE be hurt ? Like You are now with him having a girl friend now !
Good Luck !
It's a great thing to have a meaningful platonic relationship with a person of the opposite sex. Don't blow it for anything that is short term...
wow.. lol I told best friend "J" that 7 years ago, and now hes my husband.
:) Date first if you can. :) TRUST ME!
:( Awww, well he may very well be confused. You guys are still young, and especially a young man, he is most likely in no way shape or form ready for a end of the line relationship.
I have not had any luck with that sort of thing, but I'm sure it works every now and then.