Should I tell her?
Hello all. I know it's been a very long time since I've asked any questions on here, but I need to get some advice on something that's been bothering me for a while now. There's this girl I go to school with that I've grown to have really deep, genuine feelings for. We have a lot in common, and I know for a fact she really likes me as a friend and thinks I'm a wonderful person. I wouldn't go so far as to say I love her, because I hate using those words towards anyone, but the feelings are deep and genuine. She sent me a song a couple of weeks ago (lights out, words gone) by bombay bicycle club, which gets me to think she might have feelings for me back. The last two lines in the song, "when the light is out and words have gone, let me be the one to try it on," really makes me think she's trying to give me an obscure message. I'm terrified of telling her how I feel, because I would hate to lose her and I don't deal with rejection well. Am I wrong to keep these feelings from my friend?
6 Answers to "Should I tell her?"
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You're as responsible for what you don't say as you are responsible for what you do say.
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you think that message is obscure? maybe you don't deserve her!
Or does she send you lots of songs and you just hook onto this one cos it serves your purpose?
If you don't speak to her about what you feel, she will never know.
Oh, and don't be a complete man idiot and forget to listen to what she wants to say!! Remember it's not just about you, it's about her too!
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Are you saying that message isn't obscure and that she is trying to tell me something? I honestly don't know, which is why I asked. This happens to be the first song she's ever sent me. Thanks for your advice :)
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well i think if first time then she is trying to tell you something for sure! I would never do that to friend unless i had message to give her. So just say "Thanks I love the song i love what it says coe thats how i feel about you too!" then LISTEN to what she has to say. dont push her dont rush be understanding of her feelings and yours. xxx
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I would say to tell her, but that would be hypocritical of me.
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YES! Tell her! what have you got to lose? what have to got to win? either way, you win!
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No, when you're ready you will tell her!
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by poisedgal 1 Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:53AM
YES. YOU TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE. TOMORROW IS NOT GUARANTEED.
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