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Should I tell him I like him or wait for him to ask me out?

We are great friends. He started coming over to hang out with my roommate, because they were friends in high school. But now it has become that me and him have been hanging out all the time. With in the first week we met, we became comfortable with eachother, I am a shy person, and he has a very small personal bubble. He is a very friendly guy. When it is just me and him hanging out at night we usually end up wrestling or falling asleep leaning against one another. We went to a friends b-day party, the day before he asked me if "we" are going to the party. He has told me some very personal things about his past, and I have told him some personal things. I dont want our friendship to become awkward if he does not have the same feelings for me as I do him if i tell him I like him. He has also told me that he has a hard time with being friends with his exgirlfriends which I would not want to have happen if it doesnt work out between us honestly i can see us together for a long time
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wait for him to ask. he will let you know if he is really into you. let him take the first step. as a woman i like to be pursued and not the other way around.
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Posted Oct 11th, 2009 at 10:51AM
Well I personally think you should tell him because if you dont you will regret it when some other girl is all over him.
Im sure it he's mature about it he will understand your feelings and if he does not feel the same way about you then you will have to put it behind you =[.
I hope he does like you too though , so tell him how you feel...who knows he might be scared to tell you he likes you too and is waiting for you to make the first move ;]
Good luck ^^
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Posted Oct 11th, 2009 at 10:53AM
well nothing ventured nothing gained,why not just go for it.
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Posted Oct 11th, 2009 at 10:57AM
it sounds like a relationship is already underway, yay!!! take it slow and let him make the first move. you can always look him in the eye when he's talking...glance at his lips....back at his eyes....back at his lips....if he doesn't kiss you, then he's a chicken!!!! good luck!!! :)
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Posted Oct 11th, 2009 at 11:55AM
Ask yourself this question, If another Girl grabs his attention and u guys stop hanging out then how will you feel?

My guessing is that you would be Gutted! Am i right? Well its possible it can happen! lifes to short, leave nothing to chance, U waiting around for him to make the first move could be days spent with you guys actually Together!!! together!!! lol Good Luck! If he did not like you he would not be hanging round so much! Hes probably thinking the same as you! Go make your Move!!! x
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Posted Oct 11th, 2009 at 4:12PM
Tell him. If he likes you but doesn't know you like him, nothing will happen.
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Posted Oct 13th, 2009 at 9:46PM
Quit worrying if you should or not and just do it!
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