Should I tell my bf I want him to be a selfish lover?
I don't like guys who want to please their partner first. I want to have a bf who cares about his own pleasure too much, who will position or move my body the way he likes and doesn't seem to care whether I come or not and blames me for not coming. I want him to use my body for his pleasure.
I'd like to add that I or gasm when my bf touches me or holds my hands. All my body parts are erogenous zones. he can touch wherever turns him on anyway I get turned on.So I don't need him to be selfless in order to pleasure me, whatever he does makes me come. I want him to come more than me.
I don't like to be cared about too much or get attention from my bf.I like to care.I'm very selfless and very independant. I like to help people but avoid asking them to help me. I want to do everything on my own.
I don't need selfish guys. I want the guy WHOM I LOVE to be selfish.