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HI I have an elder (27) tomboy lesbian sister that lives with my husband and 1 year now. The husb and i often argue about her and its starting to get really frustrating. We helped her while she was looking for a job, in the meanwhile she was helping me with our 2 toddlers. She helped me clean and most of all emotionally. This saturday i told my husband that my brother and mom were coming over and the day prior to that my husband bought a rib rack and deli.So i told him, oh we can grill those babies up. He got mad because he didnt want to share 😱😲 well, firt off they brought a main dish so its not like they just came to eat his ribs. He was acting inddiferent all day until they left. I made Sandwiches For my Niece And son, mom And Brother Split ok And I had One. He made A huge deal about it, We ergued About it. In His Eyes we are taking advantage of him. Now i feel like i shouldnt bring my family around to avoid conflict. Its Things Like This That Make Me Fall Out Of The Love
latinaBonita latinaBonita 22-25, F 4 Answers Jun 23 in Parenting & Family

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My thought is this....your husband should come before your family. Meaning he needs to know that HE is your number one priority. He's developed these feelings for a reason.....so have a constructive talk with him and affirm your commitment to him. If your sister is the source of the problem.....then deal with her directly and make her aware of YOUR commitment to your husband and YOUR family with him is priority number one!

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Thank you

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Is he some kind of god? He can't share. He wants it his way. She needs her family and clearly, living with this selfish, hateful child means she needs them even more.

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i wont loose my family over a man, he is my husband and i make sure he feels as such. But im not going to put him first, my kids are first.

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You are not alone. Many marriages end in divorce over family matters such as this. I'm not suggesting that you loose your family over this. What I am saying is that you need to have a serious conversation with your husband about where he stands. You both got here together and you should be able to work through this together without having to choose your family over him and vice versa. Although, HE needs to realize that this puts you in a tough spot. If he truly loves you and your kids, he will work with you to resolve this in a peaceful way. Hang in there, these are tough times and should be easily resolved - I pray that it does.

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Wise woman

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This has everything to do with your husband according to your details, not your sister. First, I don't understand why you felt compelled to mention your sister's lifestyle. It didn't seem relevant to the story.<br />
Your hubby is a whiny, selfish boy.

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I agree. I was gonna add how he discriminates against gays in front of me but wont say it when shes around. Maybe he feels like he needs to put other.people down to feel superior. He has also expresses to me how unintelligent i am and so on. Make me feel like crap...

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I say be honest and talk to him about it. Then go from there.

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we have and he feels he shouldnt have to share, or atleast to give and recieve. I understand where he is coming from. But it really did bother me quite a bit. My stomach was in a knot mainly is shock of how greedy he sounded. He is always making "fun!" And making remarks about my sister and ecen though i express about how i feel about things. He tells me to stoo veing a cry 😒😒

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I was thinking this too. We learned to share in Kindergarten.

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