Should I tell someone in a relationship that I m crazy about them...when they have already told me?
I m trying to do the right thing by not telling them how I feel. It is quite early in their relationship.
He has already made it clear he is interested but very confused. We met before their relationship began, yet I wasn t ready for anything then. I feel he is fishing for me to tell him how I feel.
Yet I have simply said you re a great guy talk to me if you re ever single. The reality is I m crazy about the guy...there is something possibly quite special there.
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Posted by RobSedona Sep 21st, 2012 at 7:51AM
Yes you should tell him. Or lose him to someone else.
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Posted by rudedevil01 Sep 21st, 2012 at 7:28AM
Wait until you are ************ together ,it will be more believable
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Posted by Idonwannadie Sep 21st, 2012 at 8:51AM
Be honest and true to yourself. And as I read it, that means you should tell. But do not expect anything from him. Not because he won't give up his friend, but low expectations, don't put burdens on people, and keep your possible hurt to a minimum. Also, give him space. If he is confused already, he needs space to unconfuse.
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Posted by TheRightFitforLife Sep 21st, 2012 at 7:58AM
Tell him, tell him, tell him! Before it's too late. Only live once...especially since he's already expressed feelings for you, AND he's not in deep yet with the other person. What have you got to lose????
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Posted by JoeEDangerously Sep 21st, 2012 at 7:53AM
I think you should. He might want to be with you rather than his current partner and is that really fair? Think about the person with him. Is it fair to let the relationship continue as is? This guy might like you better. How fair is that to the other person in the relationship? They might be with someone who would rather be with someone else. Don't you think it's better to let him make a decision with all the facts?
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Posted by jessikahhh16 Sep 21st, 2012 at 7:32AM
if you have feelings let them be expressed :)
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Posted by Vessa Sep 21st, 2012 at 7:31AM
If he is involved, then you might tell him how you feel, but afterward, back off. Tell him you do not date involved men, and that he has to decide what he is going to do. Until that point, it would be a good idea to keep things at a definite friendship level...or even to avoid anything more than the lightest conversation.
Involved means hands off. Then it will be up to him to make up his mind about what he wants to do, but if he is in a relationship with someone, then he should break that off before he ends up cheating. Flirting with you, especially since he knows you have feelings, would be wrong.
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Reply by ithappenedtome2 Sep 21st, 2012 at 7:43AM
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Reply by Vessa Sep 21st, 2012 at 10:24AM
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Posted by iyqbi Sep 21st, 2012 at 7:31AM
no!don't tell them that you are crazy,but take his heart technically
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Posted by majorlatency Sep 21st, 2012 at 7:30AM
you should go nice and slow, see what develops.....
Tip..... don't tell someone that you're crazy about them while you're holding a carving knife...
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