Should I tell someone my baby is his when its not?
I am seeing someone for almost 2 months now and about thesame time I met someone else and fell in love becouse he remainded me sooo much of my first love many years ago.. I unprotected intercourse with this guy and now I think I am pregnant!!! the guy that would be the father has no Job or and is fresh out of Jail not the kind of man that would make a good influence on a child the other one is amazing and has a great job and would make a fantastic dad... should I tell this man the child is his should I happen to be pregnant??
16 Answers to "Should I tell someone my baby is his when its not?"
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No that is manipulative and messed up. You need to be up front with him. If he cares about you and he is the good man you think he is he will be happy to stand in for the real dad.
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Best answer!!!! GOLD STAR from me to you Cheers ;)
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subhumans do that sort of thing... are you subhuman
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isn't that a band or something?
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No. You should not. Not unless you want to open a dictionary some day and see your picture next to the word "evil"
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HONESTY ..HONESTY...NOTHING GOOD COMES FROM LIES.. that's my advice..i hope you listen...that's a cruel and deceitful thing to do to a man...and ultimatley your child.
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Wow....just Wow.... that is soooo beyond messed up!!!
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You have got to be joking with this question. I am going to assume that you are because the alternative is rather f'd up.
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Words fail me that this is even going through someone's head
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It's mind-boggling.
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You know the thing is this actually happens alot more then you think...
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no quickly find a new man and tell him its his. plus there are other options like adoption and abortion
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Are you this retarded??? seriously.
I'm reading through your responses and I'm becoming more convinced after each time you reply that you have some serious mental/emotional damage or are just plain stupid.
But I'll break it down for you.
Just because "It happens a lot" for women to pass off babies as being from men who arent actually the father, doesnt mean that its right/ethical/moral/decent, for the same reason that rape isnt justified, even though its common.
A child would only make a man happy if he knew the child was his.
and even if you dont tell him there are a lot of ways you might be found out in the future.
If the child had an incompatible blood type to its 'father,'
if the 'father' has the child dna tested without your knowledge (and this is easy to do, and cheap)
You. Now.
Those are the only things you care about. Not the baby, nor either of the two men you are ****ing.
Do you stop to think 'what will it do to my child if he/she finds out XXXXX is not his father, and that I lied to both of them for 10/15/20+ years,' That **** will hurt.
You dont care about that. It shows.
My advice is to abort the pregnancy, get on some birth control, and dont get into serious relationships.Like (1)
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Hey good response!!! a lot of thought went in to it I really appreciate that thank you. It bugs me when people dont think about their answers, now to answer your question no I am not retarted and I dont believe in abortion, I am not emotionally or mentally damaged... but once again thank you for taking the time to respond I really appreciate it... hope you have a nice day tc
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That has got to be the most deceitful thing I've heard in the last year! Are you by any chance in Chicago? If you decide to do this, I suggest you name the child after the mayor Rum Immoral. I think they hold they hold the record, three governors and one senator in prison at one time, or at least one decade. Over 300 murders per year!
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Good suggestion for the name but I am not looking for a name for now but thanks anyways. cheers
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Absolutely not!! If I were in your bf's position & found out you were thinking of such a thing, I'd DUMP YOU IMMEDIATELY!!
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yeah I think he would too, thats why I am not planning on telling him.
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And he would be in his right mind to do so!!
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Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!! pls dont do that!!! gosh!! i just pictured myself in his shoes. id die!
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But you wouldnt know so none the wiser... and what if this child makes him happy??
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You said: "father has no Job or and is fresh out of Jail not the kind of man that would make a good influence", But hey... Why not jump into bed with him? Or bend over the hood of his car...whatever. So NO. dont tell him. He will hate you later and then he will have the child to remind him every single day.
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Did you not read the apart about him reminded me of my first love ? :)
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I agree with Lizard. When the lie catches up with you, it will hurt more people than you think.
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Ughh no...
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Posted by abacadae Aug 2nd, 2012 at 12:45AM
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