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get on a train, in the next two hours, to go to the man I love? He won't approve or want me there?
MaryIsMyHomeGirl MaryIsMyHomeGirl 26-30, F 13 Answers Mar 30 in Dating & Relationships

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Sounds like a horrible idea. If you do, make sure you take yourself a big box of tissues.

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And some ice cream.

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And a big spoon to eat it right out of the 1/2 gallon container.

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We don't get half gallon containers in the UK :)

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The biggest container you can find, then :)

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Maybe I should just go buy the ice-cream and skip the train part. I could call him on his home number but that might cause mess and despair for all the others involved in this...

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No. The bigger question is why would you love someone who rejects you like that?

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The choice to love him, was not mine.

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All I can say is that I don't understand how someone can love a person who doesn't love them.

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I wish I understood...

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I'm really sorry that you are dealing with this. I hope you can someday find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him.

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God, yes. I wish I would, I wish I might...

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Sounds like you are setting yourself up to be hurt then.. Why do it?

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Because I can't get in contact with him any other way.

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If that's how he wants it to be, maybe there is a reason for that. If you have an address you could send a postcard.

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I have text him four times today and emailed him once. He is ignoring me until he is ready to see me again.

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Now we are getting somewhere.. You are being punished or ignored deliberately. So unless you wish to make a bad situation worse, leave him alone. Having said that, I would consider that there was something wrong with a relationship if I found myself being treated that way and think carefully whether it needed to be continued at all. It doesn't sound healthy, no matter how this came to be.

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Why then?

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I need him and if I was there in person, it would decide it all forever.

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Does he need you also in the same way? I wish you the best.

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No, he doesn't.

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a midnight train going anywhere?

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The last train I could have taken was at 01:34, arriving at 02:22. Glad I didn't go...

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Well if won't approve or want you there, why go?

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To force the issue, to end this turmoil.

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Train.

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Come again?

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you already know the outcome of not taking it so take it and try something different, you know you're destination but you never know your journey ^^
Good Luck!

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Oh ****... But that would mean moving. Seriously? Should I?

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Why would you even consider doing that to yourself? You love rejection?

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I am in love and want to force the issue, one way or another.

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I love him but, in general, I do go for asshats.

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please stop doing that. You deserve better

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I wish I thought so. Crying now.

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ugh...quit that!

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The crying? it won't kill anything...

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It kills whatever self esteem you have left girl. Grow some ovaries and demand to be treated with respect and love. It's a choice

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Oh ****. I need something that will help me do that though.

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It's inside you. It's inside all of us. You apparently think you are not worth s.h.i.t and it's ok for idiots to treat you badly.

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Yes, yes I do...

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Once you acknowledge that...you can change it

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Well sounds like he is an ***. Move on.

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He is mostly, but we don't get to choose who we love.

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Yeah but I am sure you can do better and he doesn't sound like he appreciates you. Sounds more like he likes to use you. Punt.

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He does use me. I'd like to force the issue though.

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You can choose who you love. It's actually very easy.

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but we DO choose how we will be treated

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Very true, we do. I am inclined towards self destruction.

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How? How do we do that? Tell me?

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No.

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Ok, not sure I could be asked to move right now anyway.

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