Should my boyfriend of 2 yrs cut his bf off because I find text of him putting me down saying really nasty things
10 Answers to "Should my boyfriend of 2 yrs cut his bf off because I find text of him putting me down saying really nasty things"
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Was the text to your boyfriend? If so, I would be mad at him for listening to it without sticking up for you.
You can't make him drop his friends .. he'll just resent you.
I would talk to him about how this makes you feel. If he doesn't care .. he's not much of a boyfriend .. maybe better to cut him off.Like (2)
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What does your boyfriend think? Up to him really, his friend is probably jealous and misery likes company. Does he want to keep him in his life?
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no...deal with it...it's called living in the real world...not everyone likes everyone else, however your boyfriend should make some boundaries...tell his friend he doesn't need to hear it and to keep his opinions to himself from now on.
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Grr hate losers like that. I had it with female friends as well, they'd even bring his exes along (ugh WTF?!? Who fkn does that?!) and they'd say **** like I had no one else but him and that some other chic was just going to come along and snap him up etc etc the female ones would sleep in his bedroom we weren't living together and he lived with his parents at the time and we'd only just gotten engaged like 3 weeks earlier but they had zero respect for me and had a heavy influence on him like he was their fkn puppet plus they would deliberately leave their bras laying around when they stayed yet when their boyfriend would come they'd make a big show of sleeping on the couch so the boyfriend didn't get upset but to hell with my feelings grr hope they all get karma!!
At the end of the day a relationship is between 2 ppl and no one else. If your boyfriend can't defend you then that's your answer right there and his true colours and he's just gutless like my ex was :(Like (1)
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He should have done that on his own
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more likely there is truth (at least bf thinks so) to what the friend is saying.. that is why the friend said it and the boyfriend isn't kicking his a**. My point in the snark was that my money would be on the friend if push comes to shove.
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Well if his best friend ain't getting any and he is too dumb to see that is why he is putting the girl down? No he won't lol.
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No. Not if his best friend was there first! You should never get in the way of friendship! But if he does give his friend up then imagine how he could treat you.
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Sadly not everyone is a true friend in life. I've had two close female friends who have stabbed me in the back. One slept with my husband, my issue with her, she did not keep him lol.The other acted out in my life so much, still recovering from what she did !!
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Did your boyfriend bother defending you? If not,I would be rid of him rather quickly.
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That'd be nice. What really nasty things did he say about you?
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He says he needs to find a real women he sends him text of naked girls when he knows I am with so I could see them and says these girls wants to me you, he says I'm rude when I never did anything wrong to his friend,
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Give him an ultimatum. Either his friend goes or you go.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by Serenitree Nov 19th, 2012 at 2:28PM
When A Man Loves A woman
(lyrics)
When a man loves a woman
Can't keep his mind on nothing else
He'll trade the world
For the good thing he's found
If she's bad he can't see it
She can do no wrong
Turn his back on his best friend
If he put her down
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Reply by pixelbest Nov 19th, 2012 at 2:34PM
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