Should my husband tell the spouse of a girl he was having an online affair with?

No he should not let sleeping dogs lay. Neither one of them shuold talk about it. They have caused enough pain already.

Certainly not, why hurt another human being so thoroughly just to teach your husband, the one in the wrong, a lesson.

What a shame though that the other one hasn't told her husband - poor man.

Why tell the spouse? So YOU can feel better? If you think it's going to leave a positive impression on your husband, you can forget that one....It's likely to only cause him to resent you, for making him do it....

It's not likely she was the only one your husband was doing this with, and the same for her, and your husband....I mean, what kind of woman, has phone sex, and sends naked pictures of herself, to total strangers, she meets online? I think you know what they're called.

If you are going to stay in this marriage...you need to put your energy into fixing what went wrong in the marriage.....Let her make her own bed, and lie in it.....She'll be caught, soon enough.....

Maybe, maybe not, but she sure should... Why would her husband want to find out from ANYONE else? She needs to grow up and do it herself.

Hey ...u say husband so obviously you are still together ?? If so how did you get past the fact that he cheated even if it only being a " online affair " which are so common these days??? I think he should tell her spouse because he have a right to know and if she think he didnt know or doesnt knwo she could do it again then if he finds out mabye they can save whatever they have left

No he should confront the one having the affair and tell them to come clean.

am only 11 ad i olny cheated 1 so ask is he cheaing yes am a boy

Get rid of that no good wannabe husband and tell that hussies’ spouse!