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  1. Classicality7 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Classicality7 Jun 9th, 2011 at 12:45PM

    That's a neither here nor there for me...my mom's guy is fourteen years younger than she and they've been together since 1974.

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  2. anthony1988 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by anthony1988 Mar 28th, 2012 at 4:53PM

    What about 15 years older?

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  3. DarkestSecrets - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by DarkestSecrets Apr 27th, 2011 at 8:45AM

    Yes, but there are some pros and cons to the situation. Like the older women may be ready to settle down, get married and have childern. But the younger men may just be causally dating and still wants to play the field some more. I definitly think these things should be discussed from day one before true feelings get mixed in.

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  4. anthony1988 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by anthony1988 Mar 28th, 2012 at 4:55PM

    So whats the problem? She hasnt had much sex in life, or so she says. I wanna play ball!!!!! but with her. I dont wanna loose what we have.

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  5. sadiepuppy - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by sadiepuppy Apr 2nd, 2011 at 12:29PM

    Whatever floats your boat...my goodness...who really cares...I just what someone I can talk to...for real. lol

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  6. slyrabbit - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by slyrabbit Apr 2nd, 2011 at 12:29PM

    yes,i dont think there is anything wrong with it:)

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  7. bellezzaitaliana - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by bellezzaitaliana Apr 2nd, 2011 at 12:29PM

    To answer you question, I see no reason not to.
    Now, this is for Kessie, my sister and sister-in-law both dated and married younger men. Their husbands are 18 yrs and 15 yrs younger, respectively. You are implying that all my sisters were interested in was sex.... you couldn't be more wrong and it makes you look like a fool to make such a remark. Or is it jealousy talking?

    hifi10star, you took personal offense at my answer and I am sorry for that. Please look closer and you will see that I was speaking directly to kessie, a woman who also answered your question. You may not care what I think, but I care about my family and she disparaged women on EP who date younger men. I was not speaking directly to you other than to say I see nothing wrong with it.

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  8. hifi10star - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by hifi10star Oct 2nd, 2010 at 3:10AM

    I am asking just want to know people view. I heared but want to answer from actual person. what ever u think I don't care

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  9. anthony1988 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by anthony1988 Mar 28th, 2012 at 4:52PM

    What if I am a younger guy and want some action with my girl who is 38 and she like all sexed out but I have feelings for her alot am I being childish or just rushing too fast?

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  10. Miasmicmoon - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Miasmicmoon Mar 20th, 2011 at 1:59AM

    I do but not more than 20 years younger...then people tend to think you are their mother.

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  11. novascotia - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by novascotia Mar 20th, 2011 at 1:57AM

    Another question that falls under the In my opinion) "Live & let Live" category ~ Date who ya want, marry who ya want, Do whatever ya want as long as it's legal & your not hurting anyone in the process ~

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  12. RAWRimakitty - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by RAWRimakitty Mar 5th, 2012 at 9:20PM

    yush, im sick of girls these days wanting older men

    i find it cute seeing an older girl go out with a younger man ^^

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  13. canoethenhike - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by canoethenhike Oct 5th, 2011 at 6:31PM

    Why shouldnt they? All too often you see these beautiful older women who have been left by their husbands, who go out and buy a bike, just to pick up younger women for trophy wives. If a woman my age wants to date that old fart with the show off personality. Im not interested in dating a golddigger. I would much rather have a girlfriend if not wife 10-15 years older than me. One who knows something about life and understands that love in a relationship has to come from not one, but two hearts.

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  14. lostnlonely64 - 46-50 years old

    Posted by lostnlonely64 Mar 20th, 2011 at 1:59AM

    I DONT SEE A PROBLEM WITH IT

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  15. SeekingEternalBliss - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by SeekingEternalBliss Feb 5th, 2011 at 1:21PM

    I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

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  16. anthony1988 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by anthony1988 Mar 28th, 2012 at 5:17PM

    23 y/o Male with a 38 y/o Woman???

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  17. SeekingEternalBliss - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by SeekingEternalBliss Mar 29th, 2012 at 4:13AM

    Would you question it if it was the other way around?

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  18. pierrelee - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by pierrelee Feb 5th, 2011 at 1:21PM

    Ha ha ha .. i like this.. i am young.. Only 40 plus.. Anyone wants me? Before you jump the gun.. This simple question is what it has says.. i would say why not.. It depends on the person what a date means to them. To me its just two human thinking there could enjoys each other company thats it.. Whatever next level they want to take to is again depend on each one of them. So long as everyone is happy that is the important part . Bless you..

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  19. guiltybyassociation - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by guiltybyassociation Oct 4th, 2010 at 12:20PM

    As someone who's almost exclusively dated older women, I think it's great. Older women can teach you so much. Their maturity rubs off on you and they appreciate someone who's at their peak physically. The one time I dated a (much) younger woman, I was looking for excuses to avoid her after awhile. So, it at least worths it from the younger man's perspective to date older women. I can't say it always works, nor does it work both ways. I've been treated like a boy toy, which is ok for awhile but it doesn't do it for me in the long run. I've also been the less mature one in the relationship, but, granted, this has been with women that were almost a decade older than me. So, yeah, why not? In the end of the day, whether it works out in the long run or not depends on the individuals. I personally don't want to date another older woman, I'm looking for an equal this time around, but if anyone is wondering, I'd say go for it.

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  20. salpecam - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by salpecam Apr 27th, 2013 at 9:30AM

    Absolutely yes, but then I already do this. My first sex was with a lady aged 48 when i was 20, we were together, and dating for almost 5 years. I consider it natural and very rewarding.

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  21. blackjames - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by blackjames Mar 19th, 2013 at 2:01AM

    if they want to .

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  22. Noliej - 46-50 years old

    Posted by Noliej Nov 13th, 2012 at 2:44PM

    Of course we want something. Vitality, energy and stamina.

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  23. kathrynegreen - 26-30 years old

    Posted by kathrynegreen Mar 5th, 2012 at 8:38PM

    I’ve recently hit the dating scene again, and I’ve found that it is nearly impossible for me to be attracted to men around my age. I find men who are 5 to 10 years younger much more attractive, more interesting, and more fun to be with. I try to use a cougars dating site [cougarconnecting.com ] from a friend of mine who come highly recommended. I upload a photo on the site. I got tons of responses from younger guys on there.

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  24. markstone75 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by markstone75 Oct 11th, 2011 at 2:18PM

    off course why not!

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  25. chesapeake2chic - 31-35 years old

    Posted by chesapeake2chic Feb 23rd, 2011 at 12:55AM

    For a short - term fling, heck YES! If anything more... I know from experience that you risk being annoyed by your partner... a lot. Even a wonderful, mature, young man is still ... young. There's no escape from that, but if you're a laid back female you could have a lot of fun with it. Just don't sweat the small stuff.

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  26. sweederik - 18-21 years old

    Posted by sweederik Feb 21st, 2011 at 3:09AM

    Yes, I hope! Older women are more sure of themself and much hotter!

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