uummm, are you in love with the person or just want someone, or need someone, to settle with? in not criticizing either choice but you are young and life is full of opportunities ... please don't settle for second best, but good luck with whatever choice you make. :)
I think I would definitely put any plans on the back burner until you decide what is right for you .... to be crude, your partner sounds more like a habit, rather than someone you rush home to because you miss them ... please be careful. :)
if that is your first ... and only guy ... then you need to keep trying till you get one that fits, no plans on alterations or losing weight when you get it home to make it fit
Settle for leftovers and scraps and you will either get food poisoning or left hungry.<br />
Your a long time dead to be in a relationship that is not fulfilling.<br />
Your still young. Go out and explore the world and live life. <br />
That's my advice.<br />
Good luck in what ever you do.