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Should we really ignore gay people ?

its that time when one one my friend told me that he is a gay... i was wordless and just quit from there and never talked to him again... But now i feel may be it was not his fault, he was made like this by the God... should i start talking to him again??

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    FlauntTheImperfections - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by FlauntTheImperfections 1 May 21st, 2012 at 11:54AM

    Consider why they were your friend to being with. Where they good to you? Stand by you when you needed help or support? Did you have fun with them? Did you enjoy their company?

    What the heck does their sexual preference have to do with any of the above! Talk to them. You are doing your friend, and yourself, a huge injustice by limiting yourself by a phobia.

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17 Answers to "Should we really ignore gay people ?"

  1. SoulSucker - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by SoulSucker May 21st, 2012 at 11:51AM

    Wow, you sound like an ignorant hick.

    ... and you know what's really sad about that? Your god didn't make YOU that way. Your parents did.

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  2. EarthlingWise - 41-45 years old

    Posted by EarthlingWise May 21st, 2012 at 12:08PM

    What are you afraid of?

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  3. MissGaga - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by MissGaga May 21st, 2012 at 12:05PM

    If I'm ever able to figure out that I'm gay, I'm going to completely ignore myself.

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  4. queer4clockwork - 18-21 years old

    Posted by queer4clockwork May 21st, 2012 at 11:56AM

    That was harsh to do. You not only didn't accept them when they trusted you enough to tell them something so personal, but you also abandoned them. Ouch.

    You should definitely try not to judge them and talk to him again. You need to remember that faith or not, gay is a lifestyle that doesn't change anything about there personality. You became friends in the first place because of it, and it didn't change when he told you.

    Who we love does not define our "morals" or our character.

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  5. Dee1979 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Dee1979 May 21st, 2012 at 11:54AM

    In that case, we should ignore straight and bi people too

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  6. RenaissanceKoala - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by RenaissanceKoala May 21st, 2012 at 11:54AM

    If this religion is Christianity and something you follow one of the guide lines, i think, is leave the judging to God. So if you believe in God, then you are being a bad Christian.

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  7. elyay2001 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by elyay2001 May 21st, 2012 at 11:54AM

    We should ignore all gay people. They are too happy and they make the world a better place. Just ignore them and go on with your life.

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  8. freelsjr - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by freelsjr May 21st, 2012 at 12:19PM

    He is a person. She is a person. Like everybody else. Just the sexual orientation is different.

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  9. freelsjr - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by freelsjr May 21st, 2012 at 12:23PM

    Give the person time he or she will say something stupid just like straight folks do. People are people.

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  10. GREGG2012 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by GREGG2012 May 21st, 2012 at 11:57AM

    Don't go blaming God for another's choice in his/her walk in life. For we ALL have sinned and fall short of the Glory of God. ALL of us are sinners, every single one of us!! We all have sinned, we just don't all sin alike! As with ANY fellow sinner, treat them (he/she) with the same compassion, sympathy, and empathy that you yourself would want for yourself. ANYONE can change or make the correct decission. Like Jesus Christ had said to the Pharasees about the prostitute, let he who is without sin cast the first stone!

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  11. SoulSucker - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by SoulSucker May 21st, 2012 at 12:05PM

    ... Wow, another ignorant hick.

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  12. GREGG2012 - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by GREGG2012 May 21st, 2012 at 1:01PM

    That's ok, "BabyBender" whether you believe in God or not, He believes in you AND I'll still pray for you!

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  13. dmichaelangelo - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by dmichaelangelo May 21st, 2012 at 11:55AM

    I'd say it depends on who we're talking about. I can't ignore Ellen DeGeneres enough. On the other hand, Elton John deserves the attention he gets and should not be ignored.

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  14. queer4clockwork - 18-21 years old

    Reply by queer4clockwork May 21st, 2012 at 12:10PM

    What has Ellen Degeneres done to you?

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  15. elyay2001 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by elyay2001 May 21st, 2012 at 12:12PM

    I find her annoying. Never did like her and can't really explain why.

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  16. Vessa - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Vessa May 21st, 2012 at 11:52AM

    I don't know why you would ignore someone for that reason. But I'm not big on ignoring people...unless they are jerks.

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  17. bosgek - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by bosgek May 21st, 2012 at 11:51AM

    Perhaps you shouldn't talk to me either.

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  18. Lifeiscalling - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Lifeiscalling May 21st, 2012 at 4:40PM

    Why? Just because they are gay doesn't mean they can't be some of the best friends you have. I have a few "gay" friends and have for several years now, they are no different then anybody else. I may not agree with their choice but it is their choice not mine. I don't treat them any different then any of my other friends and to tell you the truth, most of them are more honest & forgiving then any of my "straight" friends.

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  19. Dirtyvagas - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Dirtyvagas May 21st, 2012 at 11:56AM

    No just shoot them

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  20. madasalizard - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by madasalizard May 21st, 2012 at 11:53AM

    I am not anti-gay but I prefer not to hang around with them. Also there is no god.

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  21. nwtrdr33 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by nwtrdr33 May 21st, 2012 at 11:51AM

    It's your choice I have friends that chose not to associate w/gay people.That is their choice and I don't judge them for it.

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