Yes if I had gotten that fortune cookie last year, I would not be in this mess!
No, that's weak and passive. If I'm going to be anything, it's going to be strong and mature.
It all depends what it is.
Hell no. We need to meet the challenges of life head on and learn handle them
How do you know what you can't handle if you don't try
Should is the key word. This is 'Merica, boy!