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  1. PastPilot - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by PastPilot Mar 10th, 2013 at 10:34PM

    I went through a relationship where my Ex cheated on me. There were many signs, which, individually can be ignored, but taken as a whole, add up to too many coincidences to be ignored. Its a long list. littleone7733 (below) answer covers many of them. Once you have lived through it, you are trigger happy afterward and see the signs in all your future relationships.

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  2. littleone7733 - 41-45 years old

    Posted by littleone7733 Mar 10th, 2013 at 10:27PM

    Being late too much...

    Having to go out too much...

    Working late too often...

    Hairs on his clothing, car etc... (especially if they're not your color, or they are long and yours are short).

    His sex drive increases a lot, or decreases a lot...

    Computer activity such as dating sites etc... Cleaning his browser history etc...

    Does he smell of things such as perfume, smoke (if you and/or he doesn't smoke) etc...

    Using too much cash...

    He breaks or cancel appt's with you...

    He leaves the room or goes outside to take phone calls... (due to cell phones there aren't as many hang ups on calls to the house phone).

    He is leaving earlier than usual for work...

    He begins to work out when he hasn't before...

    Some women can't hide it well when they see your guy out and about when he is with you. They are a tad too friendly. You need to pay attention to the female attention he receives to see if it is out of the ordinary...

    He changes his wardrobe or begins to wear different things that are out of the ordinary for him...

    He begins to take business trips (esp if he hasn't before). If he has always taken them, then it is much harder to figure out.

    Does he want to try different things in the bedroom with you (when he used to only be vanilla)?

    Does he only want to be vanilla with you in the bedroom (when he wasn't before)?

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  3. Azrae144 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Azrae144 Mar 10th, 2013 at 10:18PM

    Four suspect lies, pieces of information, clues, or obvious signs. At least one of them is true.

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  4. Marku912 - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by Marku912 Mar 10th, 2013 at 10:12PM

    Starts to act paranoid and suspicious.

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  5. Delilah5 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Delilah5 Mar 10th, 2013 at 10:10PM

    Nitpicking. Coming home late. Keeping their phone close and NOT letting you look at what's in it. Fake niceness and surprise gifts for no reason, like bringing you flowers at weird times. LYING. And HIDING their conversations.

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  6. abstraction - male

    Reply by abstraction Mar 10th, 2013 at 10:18PM

    Ouch. Sounds like someone who knows what they're talking about.

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  7. Delilah5 - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Delilah5 Mar 10th, 2013 at 10:20PM

    Yes. Divorced that lying crap piece.

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  8. Myfavorite - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Myfavorite Mar 10th, 2013 at 10:09PM

    define cheater. I'm sure my definition is a little different from yours

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  9. artbandit - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by artbandit Mar 10th, 2013 at 10:09PM

    they are winning

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  10. Mittons - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Mittons Mar 10th, 2013 at 10:09PM

    it has a beard

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  11. sansseraph - 36-40 years old

    Posted by sansseraph Mar 10th, 2013 at 10:09PM

    They are on the internet when you are supposed to watching reality TV together.

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