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My mom is finally letting me go to a school dance. But I plan on ditching and going to my gf house. The details are my mom is dropping me off at 6pm for the dance I'm leaving and walking across town at 15° weather for 25 Min to go to my gf house. Then I will have to leave at 7:40 to get back at the school again I'll have to walk back. I cannot get caught and idk if I should do it or not. I really want to but I'm not all that sure its safe to be walking around these neighborhoods help please should I go for it or save my butt?
sexybigirl23 sexybigirl23 13-15, F 17 Answers Jan 23 in Dating & Relationships

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you seem really desperate to be with her. I would try to work something out better at a later date. It's not worth walking in the cold potentially unsafe neighborhood to be with her for an hour. You're not only risking your freedom but your safety as well. Doesn't your mom allow you to have sleepovers?

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why cant your friend just go to the dance?

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Extremely dumb and not worth it. I would if it was a longer amount if time but not for an hour.

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I would advise you not to do that. There are many things that could go wrong, your mom could come early, something could happen while you're on your way to your gf house or while you're there, or something could happen at the school to prompt your mom to come pick you up, without you knowing, you wouldn't make it there in time. Even if all those things don't happen, you still could never know. <br />
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Here's the deal. Your mom is finally give you her trust. She is allowing you to go to a dance all on your own, by yourself. What's the harm in you and your girlfriend going to the dance? You don't have to do anything, just dance with each other like you two are friends.

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u worry alot dont you?

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No, I'm just precautious.

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can't you ask one of your other friends to walk to her house with you then leave with you when you have to go. If you can't then i say just dont go.

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Well as a person who has suck out in this weather and done dangerous walks around some real bad places, its always a risk if your not 100% sure then dont do it. it might be a good idea to have her meet you half way then walk the rest with you to her house for safety. Also the cold, i regretted the times i did it, if your going to the dance you will probably not be dressed for the occasion. But it is a rush and you have fun, but then again you would only be there for 15 minutes, so in conclusion i think you shouldnt. You're young, its dangerous, and dark and not long enough to be worth it. :) but good luck deciding!

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I don't think it wise to walk for 25 minutes in 15 degree weather. I'd be more afraid of frostbite than getting caught by mom.<br />
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Be smart. See her another time.

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Don't do it. I use to sneak out in the middle of the night to see some guys and guess what? I got busted by an undercover cop, had to wake my dad up and TG my dad was real cool and he just gave me a lecture on how unsafe that was etc and I never did it again because he made me feel so guilty! Knowing what I know now, because I am older then you, you can run into a lot of trouble , way to many perverts out there, just go to the dance as planned, have a good time and be home when expected.

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dont do it?

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Simple, invite your friend to the dance. It's easier on your part, and you get to see her.

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Don't do it. It's not worth the trouble and the risk. See your girlfriend another time.

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be honest with mom...maybe she'll drive you...

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whats wrong with the dance

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Don't do it. Not worth it for the short amount of time.

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