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So, he said he's finished, like so many times b4. Should I open myself up to dating again?

We have broken up so many times. I was so finished but I let him sweet talk me into saving the marriage- He is mad again and screams it's over... Should I cut my losses and use this breakup to really leave the marriage for good in spite of his threatening and sob stories when he decides he isn't mad anymore and still wants the marriage to continue? I have been completely faithful thus far...we live on 2 different coasts and can't seem to be good enough together to make it to my moving to where he is. Almost 2 years without being touched by anyone or anything...What would u do?

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3 Answers to "So, he said he's finished, like so many times b4. Should I open myself up to dating again?"

  1. tikitour - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by tikitour Apr 8th, 2012 at 5:17AM

    take control of your life and start calling the shots. two years of waiting for someone who is on and off, is like accepting half a life. i think its time to let this man figure out his problems alone....he sounds like he has managed to off load his insecurities on to you, and you are alone and have nothing to loose.but alot to gain. cut your loses and leave this man for a better chance at your life and future...good luck

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  2. AngelFoodMoonCake - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by AngelFoodMoonCake Apr 8th, 2012 at 6:57AM

    Spoken like a true lady!

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  3. Sophiasexy30 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Sophiasexy30 Apr 8th, 2012 at 4:39AM

    never stay with a person who repeatedly does things like that, if they really wanted to change something they would have done so or at least tried to. Some people find it hard but they at least need to make an effort.

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  4. tyjen - 61-65 years old - female

    Posted by tyjen Apr 8th, 2012 at 3:55AM

    too right you should ...dont hang about for a waste of space like that..lifes too short...

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  5. AngelFoodMoonCake - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by AngelFoodMoonCake Apr 8th, 2012 at 4:02AM

    U are so right.

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