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So ShakespeareSonnet116 thinks I'm racists because I said this, Please read and tell me how it makes me racists?

"I'm not saying like everyone, but do you sometimes feel some physical/emotional/s*xual attraction to people outside your race? What is it about that person ?".

Yes I talk about race but I'm not judging/implying anything negative towards anyone based on race... WHAT THE HELL ??

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    Bfinally - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Bfinally Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:39AM

    There are some intellectual midgets who claim racist at the drop of a hat. It's their way of trying to silence a different opinion. Your comment is not racist, but there is an implication in it that you think it is odd to be attracted to someone of another race. That in itself, in my opinion is not racist, but it does open you up to some who will jump to that conclusion.

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  1. OntreMuzik - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by OntreMuzik Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:43AM

    I understand but my only problem with this person was that she made an assumption, which is a pre-determined accusation, meaning she doesn't know for sure whether or not I was racists and instead of confronting me she attacked me

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  2. Bfinally - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by Bfinally Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:45AM

    Yes, that is how intellectual midgets operate. Just ignore it.

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18 Answers to "So ShakespeareSonnet116 thinks I'm racists because I said this, Please read and tell me how it makes me racists?"

  1. ShakespeareSonnet116 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by ShakespeareSonnet116 Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:34AM

    It must be hardwired in or something.

    You are what you are, & you're a racist.

    *skips away to communicate with egalitarian types instead*

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  2. OntreMuzik - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by OntreMuzik Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:37AM

    you still keep telling me I'm Racists when IM NOT !!!!! Even worsts you haven't explained to me at all why what I said is so racists ?

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  3. ShakespeareSonnet116 - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by ShakespeareSonnet116 Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:41AM

    I did. In the original thread! & hardcassle puts it brilliantly above too.

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  4. StartingOver2012 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by StartingOver2012 Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:37AM

    Too bad we aren't all colour blind

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  5. PixieCutLover - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by PixieCutLover Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:35AM

    Same old self righteous bull ****. These race baiting witch hunters are every where just brain washed sheeple doing what their programed to do.

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  6. CopperCoil - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by CopperCoil Dec 4th, 2012 at 10:33AM

    If you really want to stir things up be attracted to another species! I am all about dolphins myself.

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  7. goliathtree - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by goliathtree Dec 4th, 2012 at 10:37AM

    That reminds me, can you please return my milk crate? The bucket I have been using is just not as stable.

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  8. CopperCoil - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by CopperCoil Dec 4th, 2012 at 11:35AM

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  9. affinityterra - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by affinityterra Dec 4th, 2012 at 10:16AM

    To me there is only one race, the human race, but we all come from different ethnic backgrounds. I don't believe ethnicity and race are actually the same thing. The thing is, it's not your fault, because it's part of the world we live in and is the norm, but separating things or calling attention to things as a racial aspect and/or skin pigment, is racist. It is the social norm among all ethnic groups though, so many don't see it as that way.

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  10. OntreMuzik - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by OntreMuzik Dec 4th, 2012 at 11:03AM

    okay

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  11. goliathtree - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by goliathtree Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:55AM

    If ignorance is bliss, there are some really, really happy people in this thread.

    Our differences may define us, but defining those diffences and accentuating them, especially those that are based on race is inherently racist. People are people. Asking a question about dating outside of your race IS inherently racist. It may be a valid question, and people may be a bit too sensitive, but it is what it is.

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  12. ShakespeareSonnet116 - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by ShakespeareSonnet116 Dec 4th, 2012 at 9:02AM

    Thank you Goliath! I just wanted to point that out, so maybe he'd think about that... Perhaps I was a little bullish in doing it. But THAT was my intent.

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  13. OntreMuzik - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by OntreMuzik Dec 4th, 2012 at 9:03AM

    perhaps you should of asked me instead of passing judgement off what you "think" instead of what you "know" :)

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  14. NamelessRyan - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by NamelessRyan Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:45AM

    I've had the same thing happen. Some people can't stand the subject of race and will take it out on anyone who brings it up.

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  15. lleasarae - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by lleasarae Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:35AM

    Not at all ,its a preference? Maybe he is insecure?

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  16. ob1kenobe - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by ob1kenobe Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:34AM

    Yep I saw the racist comment. It's erroneous. ignore it.

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  17. BennDover - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by BennDover Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:33AM

    Doesn't sound racist as in hateful but it implies there's some sort of difference between one race and another.

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  18. OntreMuzik - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by OntreMuzik Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:35AM

    There are differences between races, why do people say that race isn't a factor when it is, Race affects everyones lives and that still doesn't explain how it implies anything negative towards a race ?

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  19. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:40AM

    I get what you are saying ontremuzik. I didn't take that as racist...just a question. But I can see where others might see it a different way. You gotta be careful on here...or anywhere when asking race questions. Even if your intentions were harmless

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  20. Indie42 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Indie42 Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:30AM

    Maybe you should watch your phraseology.

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  21. OntreMuzik - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by OntreMuzik Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:31AM

    okay.... can you phrase this in another way that is not so racists then ?

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  22. Indie42 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by Indie42 Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:43AM

    Use different words, like ethnicity and maybe change the sentence a bit. Like, 'have you ever been drawn to someone of a different ethnicity? What was the attraction?' Of course, someone else might find that offensive. You shouldn't get bent out of shape by one opinion.

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  23. TheOneyouwerewarnedabout - 70+ years old

    Posted by TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:29AM

    ahh well. someppl just like to go around pointing fingers.. i suggest you turn your hand and point one right back :)

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  24. TheOneyouwerewarnedabout - 70+ years old

    Reply by TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:47AM

    yar. i hate ppl who pull the race card. espesh morons.

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  25. sorrytryagain - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by sorrytryagain Apr 22nd, 2013 at 7:43AM

    hahahaha how is that racist? some people think ANYTHING is racist, even mentioning the word "Asian" "African", etc, is racist. OMG! When will people learn that racism is if you are suggesting that a race is inferior to another, being discriminative or prejudice, not simply addressing the reality that there are different ethnic groups in the world. hahahaha priceless.

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  26. Experienced321 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Experienced321 Mar 21st, 2013 at 2:24PM

    Sonnet usually calls a spade a spade, and is usually spot on...

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  27. bijouxbroussard - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by bijouxbroussard Mar 21st, 2013 at 1:17PM

    It's the implication that it's odd to be attracted to someone's personal qualities if that individual is not of the same racial or ethnic background as yourself. There IS a certain racial prejudice implied in the question. Someone free from racial bias (admittedly few of us) would not ask such a question, it wouldn't occur to them that one wouldn't be attracted to someone they "clicked" with. Regardless of race.

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  28. dollysworld - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by dollysworld Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:34AM

    How about ask if you are attracted to other ethnicities sp*? instead.

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  29. OntreMuzik - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by OntreMuzik Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:37AM

    Do people not know what synonyms are? That's pretty much saying the same thing !! OMG

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  30. dollysworld - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by dollysworld Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:43AM

    Don't complain to me. You asked.

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  31. 5thApprentice - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by 5thApprentice Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:31AM

    Meh, it's just miscommunication or a misunderstanding, it happens a lot. Don't let it wind you up, just ignore and find peace in yourself knowing that you aren't racist.

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  32. OntreMuzik - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by OntreMuzik Dec 4th, 2012 at 8:33AM

    but how, how would that come across racists ?

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  33. winstonwelles - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by winstonwelles Dec 6th, 2012 at 6:23AM

    Because it (appears to) assume there's something wrong (or at least unusual) with being attracted to a different race, which brings to mind segregation.

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