It must be hardwired in or something. <br />
You are what you are, & you're a racist. <br />
*skips away to communicate with egalitarian types instead*
I did. In the original thread! & hardcassle puts it brilliantly above too.
Hi Ferric! *waves*
Ferric have you met Literaturegirl? She's president of my fan club y'know. :D
Too bad we aren't all colour blind
If ignorance is bliss, there are some really, really happy people in this thread.<br />
Our differences may define us, but defining those diffences and accentuating them, especially those that are ba<x>sed on race is inherently racist. People are people. Asking a question about dating outside of your race IS inherently racist. It may be a valid question, and people may be a bit too sensitive, but it is what it is.
Thank you Goliath! I just wanted to point that out, so maybe he'd think about that... Perhaps I was a little bullish in doing it. But THAT was my intent.
Perhaps. Sorry about that... I stand by intend, but maybe not the content. The part where I called you an imbecile at least. :)
Young man, you need a few years under your belt. Leave it at that. Enjoy your youth, but don't forget that you are not the first to tread these waters. Hopefully with age will come wisdom and understanding....it doesn't always as is evident here, but I can tell you that at your age, while you may believe to the contrary, you "know" very little.
not an ageist....an experiencist. big difference.
you like to argue don't you.
lmao....you are still arguing.
Oh now... & there was me trying to let you off light because you're only a little'un. Tsk tsk. . . Here's the fact of it. By implying, if not straight out saying that there is something unusual about interracial relationships you are showing yourself to believe that it is not normal. That is wrong plain & simple.
I'm not sure you know what implying means... Anyway, I'm bored. *wanders off*
Isn't he cute, Goliath... Can I keep 'im? Can I? ;)
Absolutely not. I ended up feeding the last one you brought home even though you promised you would take care of him.
Ok...Ok...if you promise you will clean up his "accidents."
*can't stand to see Sonnet pout*
No, you were wrong, and she was tactless.
There are some intellectual midgets who claim racist at the drop of a hat. It's their way of trying to silence a different opinion. Your comment is not racist, but there is an implication in it that you think it is odd to be attracted to someone of another race. That in itself, in my opinion is not racist, but it does open you up to some who will jump to that conclusion.
Yes, that is how intellectual midgets operate. Just ignore it.
The question you asked is based on assumptions (people should stick to their own race) which are racist. I don't think it's very useful to label people as being either racist or not racist, but I think the question you asked betrays a certain ignorance about race. Why on earth would it be strange to be attracted "outside your own race"?
I don't see where his assumptions-which are drawn by the reader, not stated by the writer-are necessarily racist; meaning a sense of one race being superior. I see it simply as something new to him, like he has only seen people of his community match up within their race. In fact, he is indicating an attraction to someone of another race; and so I would say that he is not as labeled.
Haha, lol. I guess you were pointing out attraction through familiarity vs it's opposite. There are many cultures (subcultures) that are more inclined to date foreign people (sometimes out of spite of their own culture).
Same old self righteous bull ****. These race baiting witch hunters are every where just brain washed sheeple doing what their programed to do.
It's the implication that it's odd to be attracted to someone's personal qualities if that individual is not of the same racial or ethnic background as yourself. There IS a certain racial prejudice implied in the question. Someone free from racial bias (admittedly few of us) would not ask such a question, it wouldn't occur to them that one wouldn't be attracted to someone they "clicked" with. Regardless of race.
If you really want to stir things up be attracted to another species! I am all about dolphins myself.
That reminds me, can you please return my milk crate? The bucket I have been using is just not as stable.
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Dolphins, the thinking zoophiles crumpet...
To me there is only one race, the human race, but we all come from different ethnic backgrounds. I don't believe ethnicity and race are actually the same thing. The thing is, it's not your fault, because it's part of the world we live in and is the norm, but separating things or calling attention to things as a racial aspect and/or skin pigment, is racist. It is the social norm among all ethnic groups though, so many don't see it as that way.
I've had the same thing happen. Some people can't stand the subject of race and will take it out on anyone who brings it up.
Not at all ,its a preference? Maybe he is insecure?
Doesn't sound racist as in hateful but it implies there's some sort of difference between one race and another.
I get what you are saying ontremuzik. I didn't take that as racist...just a question. But I can see where others might see it a different way. You gotta be careful on here...or anywhere when asking race questions. Even if your intentions were harmless
I've got to say this before my brain explodes. A racisT -- two racisTS. You keep saying "a racists".
Maybe you should watch your phraseology.
Use different words, like ethnicity and maybe change the sentence a bit. Like, 'have you ever been drawn to someone of a different ethnicity? What was the attraction?' Of course, someone else might find that offensive. You shouldn't get bent out of shape by one opinion.
Yes. But there is a difference between calling someone a person of color versus black. Can ya see it?
Some people are more sensitive to certain words. Synonyms often set a different tone as well, and if you can't get that, smh
Then you should've phrased your question differently.
ahh well. someppl just like to go around pointing fingers.. i suggest you turn your hand and point one right back :)
yar. i hate ppl who pull the race card. espesh morons.
How about ask if you are attracted to other ethnicities sp*? instead.
Don't complain to me. You asked.
Thank You for that. You're forgiven. I wasn't implying that you sounded racist at all....was just offering another option.
The phrasing isn't the problem, the underlying assumption is.
Meh, it's just miscommunication or a misunderstanding, it happens a lot. Don't let it wind you up, just ignore and find peace in yourself knowing that you aren't racist.
Because it (appears to) assume there's something wrong (or at least unusual) with being attracted to a different race, which brings to mind segregation.
Anytime a person differentiates or describes someone ba<x>sed on their race, it is racism.