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So there's a chance that the person who I call my dad isn't my dad...my mom had a one night stand in 1997 .

On New Year's Eve when my parents were fighting and she doesn't know who my dad is great....

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  1. TheRQCKSTARZz0ne - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by TheRQCKSTARZz0ne Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:21PM

    BIOLOGY isn't EVERYTHING hun :)

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  2. BamPow - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by BamPow Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:18PM

    How has the person you've always known as your dad treated you and taken care of you? If he's been there for you, he's still your "dad" even if he's not your biological father.

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  3. letsexperience - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by letsexperience Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:17PM

    biologically, not the dad who spent his life with you.....don't be angry with her, it's not her fault for having a time of weakness after all, it did come out great, all of us have you!

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  4. MikeWinther - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by MikeWinther Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:17PM

    So look at your dad right now and find the similarities

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  5. Caitlinstar101 - 13-15 years old - female

    Reply by Caitlinstar101 Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:25PM

    We both have blue eyes

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  6. MikeWinther - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by MikeWinther Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:26PM

    Thats a start :)

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  7. Derangedjdub - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Derangedjdub Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:53PM

    hmmm..?? well IF you ever find the ***** donor - thank him.. but go and give your DAD the biggest hug of his life, and tell him you love him. He obviously loves you! MUAH xoxox

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  8. Classicality7 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Classicality7 Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:39PM

    Can you help me understand how that changes anything? I had a close friend in high school who went through the very same thing and I've never truly understood what the big deal was all about. I accept that it IS a big deal to you and was to her, but I don't understand it. You are still YOU regardless of who your biological father is. I can understand being curious, but beyond that I don't get it. Please help me understand if you can.

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  9. martinb01 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by martinb01 Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:31PM

    Doesn't stop you wondering though, does it?

    Talk to your mom when the time's right find out as much as you can.

    Remember your genetic father is just that!

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  10. jackblasio - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by jackblasio Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:25PM

    What difference does it really make?...none at all...long as they are there for you...there were a lot times while I was growing up I wish I had other parents, everyone else's parents seemed nicer and more understanding...from the outside looking in...but all kids have gripes...it's human nature!! It is always something...

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  11. Unique4real - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Unique4real Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:22PM

    Oh! you know that the one who raises you and take good care of you and comfort you, and most of all listen at you is more likely and better than biological dad who make you come to this world so just enjoy how your dad is being there for you.

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  12. jeanemae - 26-30 years old

    Posted by jeanemae Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:20PM

    your dad is the one who raised you.. even if it's not biologically true. What has brought this to your attention anyway?

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  13. amstevens23 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by amstevens23 Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:20PM

    well your DAD is the one who cares for you and raised you... the person who gave you life...isn't here now.. I understand you probably have alot to think about and you're curious but the important thing is you have someone now.

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  14. Makessense - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by Makessense Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:19PM

    Quite the revelation for a young lady to deal with but, your parents owe you the truth of who may be your dad and a DNA test.

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  15. reubles - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by reubles Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:17PM

    well if he raised you, he's your dad. you don't want to look for some stranger and turn him into your father.

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  16. PhazonMario - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by PhazonMario Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:17PM

    just go get your blood tested

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  17. Tyrrmack - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Tyrrmack Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:17PM

    Has your father loved you, raised you, supported you, always been there for you?

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  18. FlauntTheImperfections - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by FlauntTheImperfections Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:17PM

    Well. It is only a chance. It might also just be something your mom said when she was angry. Some people lie when they are angry.

    If the person you call dad has been a good father to you. He IS your dad. Nothing else matters.

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  19. PrettyGirlRed - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by PrettyGirlRed Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:16PM

    I'm sorry to hear that. Hope everything works out for the best.

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  20. daviesgirl - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by daviesgirl Oct 16th, 2012 at 3:16PM

    Jezza Kyle

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