There were feelings, that at the time ended too soon. Maybe just different Colleges, the last prom date hung around or one of us got distracted by another. Then 6 or 7 years later other relationships were formed. Have you considered HOW to revisit someone that has entered your thoughts over the last 40 years. I wonder if (?) myself and would like the women to answer if there was someone they felt a "pang" with long ago and what would be the reaction if he re-entered your surroundings. There may not be enough past, but answering could there have been as satisfaction to move on. Does the "Venus" candle burn out all together in time ?