Some people think that having a baby can fix a relationship,do you think that's true?
14 Answers to "Some people think that having a baby can fix a relationship,do you think that's true?"
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Absolutely wrong!
They never take into account the child that has come into the world. when two people conceive, the child must be the central focus of their attention, not the relationship that brought about that child. "having a baby" is just the beginning of an enormous responsibility, not the culmination of a relatinship.Like (2)
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Nope. That only makes a guy want to run away more.
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No. The worst thing you can do in a tanking relationship is bring in a small, dependent person to share the misery.
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NO !
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No. It tends to end the relationship sooner. Especially if one in the relationship didn't plan nor want the child to begin with. One reason why the single parent rate is so high
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It might help in the beginning but just remember hormones, post partum depression and insomnia beyond what you've ever had to deal with. It won't be long before the joy and closeness you feel starts to pale, and with little impulse control, you'll both bicker and remember why you had problems.
Don't ever look at a baby as a bandaid on a relationship that needs help. Go to counselling, alone if your partner won't go, but hopefully together so you can decide how to work though your issues, and then love the idea of explanding your family.Like (1)
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who are these 'some people' who think that. i can imagine such a thing might happen but probably only in the movies
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It may be able to fix some relationships. Disclaimer: I've never dated any girls for more than about a month, so I may be wrong about babies fixing relationships.
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NO WAY!! Having a child is the most exhausting thing you will ever do. If you have a child with someone you love, cherish and have a great relationship with, you will be fine. If there is an existing strain prior to the child, it can break the relationship. Children take the focus off the relationship for a while so you need a strong foundation to ba
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lol
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nope because both people in the relationship have to work at the relationship to make it better them selves and sometimes even having a baby can make things even difficult than what it already is
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No, it puts a lot of strain on a relationship. But it can fix your life if you gain true perspective.
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NO.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by Beksinski Jul 25th, 2012 at 9:57PM
No, you just get a kid who's stuck with two immature selfish parents who didn't want a kid, they just wanted their relationship to work.
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