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When you ask someone you don't know or barely know a question, and they call you, "Honey or Sweetie" before answering a question, do you feel like they're talking down to you? Like they are better, more experienced or much more mature than you? Please explain your answer
IamySelf IamySelf 18-21, F 20 Answers Mar 5, 2013 in Community

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Not at all....... if they are older than I am its usually just a word of endearment from their generation of which they mean no insult by.

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I really hate those terms my aunties used to do it back in the day also grandma, mum which was fine Now I feel everybody does it because they think it's cute.. I think it's in the tone to whether they are talking down to you or not. It reminds me of Kath and Kim who we all know are bogans. lol

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No,some people really talkand type like that..,sometimes life is too short to get hung up on the minutia..theres a whole lot of very blatant mindless disrespect.

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Yes. Unless its an old lady or a family member.

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I take a look at their age. If they are 45+ i don't take it as talking down to me.

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Nobody has called me HOney or Sweetie. Yes, there are many who calls me dear. Most of the time I am concern about the answer or what they are saying.

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If it were a coincident put down then yes and words or phrase can be miss used if the intent is wrong.

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I'm sure its a double standard but as a guy no I don't if a woman says it to me. If I heard a guy say that to a women, I would think it would be insulting.

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THAT'S what it is! I knew I hated that!!! aaahhh!! I'd rather be called 'Ma'am'...even though I hate that too.

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No, sometimes I like it, it makes me feel special! Not sure why!

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