It's perfectly normal to be nervous before your first time. Do you know a guy you can do it with who you like and can trust?
Here's a secret: if the idea of BJs is all that turns you on, girls can do that too...
The thought of doing that can be scary.<br />
But if its with someone you know then just talk about sexual things and feelings.<br />
Go for it as we all get our own thoughts.<br />
And want to experience certain things.<br />
I am straight but my stories tell a little about me.<br />
Feel free to chat if you want to ask me more on whiteboard.
You will not know if you really enjoy it or not until you try it. Maybe you are afraid that if that happens, you will think of yourself as "gay" or "bisexual". These are just stupid words. We are all sexual human beings. When we have sex, we do it with an specific person, not with the whole male or female collective.