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Somone give me girl help?

I went out with this girl 4 times before in the past 2 years and each time she just keeps breaking my heart.... The other day i was invited to her birthday party and i was the only guy.. I dont know if she still likes me but she has always been paying close attention to me.. And i would just sit in the corner and listen to my ipod cause i was kind of nervous :( and when i would look over to her she was whispering with her friends and then they would look at me and giggle...?At school she never talks to me but she always does on msn, IM not really sure what to do i just truly love her but Im too shy, ive had alot of moments to kiss her, but i never knew if it would be right.....
We are best friends and stuff but she doesnt talk to me. she always promises to talk to me at breaks in school but she stays with me for like 5minutes then she gets pulled away by her friends.. She pissed me off so much i didnt talk to her for a week and now she kind of talks to me a little more but i dont want to ask her if she likes me cause im worried if it will ruin our friendship| thanks for ur help.:}

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my boyfriend and i started out as best friends.
he liked me first and confessed.
i didn't have any romantic feelings for him at the time, so said no. i got SO scared our friendship might be ruined, but he continued being my best friend. then i had problems with a stalker, and he stood beside me protecting me all the way through.
i fell in love with him.
my point is that you should brave it and confess!
if after that she can't be your girlfriend OR your best friend then get over her. you'd be surprised on how free you'd feel

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mzdivine	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM She doesn't want you by the sounds of it ! She only wants to show you off to her girlfriends! There are plenty of more fish in the ocean! Rated: +1Vote for this!
triciafly	Posted Jan 19th, 2009 at 8:23PM Ok...take a deep breath. Relax. I'm assuming you are young, so use my womanly wisdom. Girls LOVE confident guys. Not arrogant or cocky, but confident. If you really want to take her out, ask her. If you sit in a corner and listen to your ipod, she will think that you would rather do that then be with her. Don't hang all over her or act desperate. Walk up to her, say hello, and ask her out. If she says no, keep your chin up and walk away. If she wants to go out with you, she will. Either way, you will know and you can move on from there. Be confident. If she says yes, ask her what she would like to do, say a movie, dinner, etc. But YOU need to plan the date. If she says dinner, find out what kind of food. Make the reservation at a place you thought of, and plan out the ENTIRE evening. Don't flip flop, or say, "whatever you want to do." Girls hate that. Just do it.....be bold and confident, and charming. Good luck!! Rated: +1Vote for this!
wiseowl	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM She's a child..you are young too.Go out and get a new girl who actually wants to have fun ..WITH YOU.She'll grow up to be a head case anyway. Consider yourself saved. Rated: +1Vote for this!
icyfire	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM Tell her how you feel, if you can't tell her in person ...tell her on msn. If her answer is not what you need to hear, then move on. It will be her loss and there are girls out there not afraid to show you how they feel about you. Rated: +1Vote for this!
grannym	Posted Jan 19th, 2009 at 8:24PM Honey find someone else. You say you are friends but it sounds like it;s very onesided. If she can't even be a true friend, how can you trust her to be a girlfriend? Rated: +1Vote for this!
sandradawy	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM I wish you would go back and read what you wrote it sounds like you have actually answerd the question, What Im getting from this is by her actions and her words she is taking you for granted. Pull away from her and see how she likes that. I think you already know in your heart what you need to do just doing it is the hard part. Good luck Rated: +1Vote for this!
MiHeartRk	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM if its not working out how you want it to be then don't waste your time on her she's already your best friend so if it doesn't feel like it's working out then there's no use in moving mountains.... Rated: +1Vote for this!
highonanimeXD	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM i totally under stand were ur coming from... i have the same problem with this guy that i like..... but its up to you.... if your willing to give it another chance, then try to make it obvious to her, it might seem that girls notice everything but they can be just as oblivious as boys. in stead of waiting for her to come and talk to u. rack up the courage and just talk to her! but if u dont want to get ur feelings hurt then forget about her, and go for someone who is worth your time. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Praxis	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM I think you should go to a fancy restaurant with her and both of you bring you laptops with you and communicate via messenger..... its all good. hehehe Rated: +1Vote for this!
singer1960	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM Take a shot in the dark...If you can not do it face to face....Well do it in an E-Mail.....But do it....also tell het that you would want to see her more in school....and just do it...If she does not like you in that way...well you could still have a good friend...But you will know it...and be able to find another..... Good luck to you... Rated: +1Vote for this!
rob94qwerty	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM maybe she is unconfortable to be with you or embarrassed. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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