Better way to ask is whether or not the insurance cards were updated for 2013... with a nice 'I only ask since I know you have a Dr. appt. soon and probably have grabbed a new one if we got them.'
Simple thing really_"Honey have you seen my health card anywhere" I can't find it anywhere?"
If you don't... & he does_then he'll not get in... & must miss opp. and/or come back & go back again? Put it in eh's wallet or on dresser or where he won't/can't miss it? Or bite da bullet & come out w/it if he's one of those forgetful kind. That’s our jobs to make each other lives easier is it s'not? I mean your not doing actual harm & ya mean well, go 4 it! No end will come from it. I'm sure,his heatlh shud be his biggest concern really,~;-)
Why struggle? Why not just ask?
leave it with his car keys or wallet
Why didnt you buy american?