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Talk with futture mother-in-law did it well?

The following is a talk I had with my future mother-in-law
Cassie pearls: AM CASSIE'S MOTHER

SORRY AM NOT SO GOOD WITH THE COMPUTE

TALING TO YOU

Me: hello

how are you?

Cassie pearls: HOW ARE U DOING

HI

Me: im okay

Cassie pearls: AM OK JUST WEAK AND SICK

Me: so what was cassie told you about me

Cassie pearls: she said you want to marry her

is that true?

Me: yes

she said you liked me-is that true?

Cassie pearls: are you really sure about that?

Me: why do you ask?

Cassie pearls: Yes because of how she presented you to me

Me: how did she present me

Cassie pearls: i have the to ask about whoever my daughter is going out with

that you're nice and patient

normal way a lady present whoever she is dating to her parent

are you really in love with her??

Me: yes

dont you trust me

Cassie pearls: please dont hurt her

i do not want you to hurt her

Me: I wouldnt do that



well im kind of uncomfortable with the way I has treated Ive heard people say rosemary (thats the mother) has just looking out for her daughter first of all did I say something wrong and I am wrong to think the conversation didnt go well-im talking to rosemary again soon what should I say
Posted 5 months ago
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Pretty retarded to do it over the internet. It's a little disrespectful to the mom--it shows Cassie's parents that you really don't have the presense to be in her life.

If you want to marry this girl, and NOT be criticized by either of her parents, buy a plane ticket and see them.
(If you are planning on marrying the girl, you surely have enough money to buy a plane ticket to *properly present yourself to her parents.)

If it were me that you were talking to, I'd be like; "So, you can sit there and be with my daughter in person, but you can't come to meet her parents? There's something wrong with this guy."

Just shell out the cash and meet the mom. Cheap-o. (..her parents will probably also think you're cheap or flaky because of that. I mean..you don't have the "I want to marry your kid" talk over the internet.)
Posted 5 months ago

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RandomODNer
Posted Jun 15th, 2009 at 8:38AM
agreed, you don't do it over the interet.
but remember, If parents give you cr*p, just play it cool, because your wife will stand up for ou, and you'll stand up for her when dealing with your parents..right? This is just like my cousin Vinnie, and Chelsie, but they're a little younger.
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unicorn59
Posted Jun 15th, 2009 at 8:38AM
I would talk to them in person....but, what the future MIL said to you, is just out of concern for her daughter...

I have a son-in-law, and when he said he wanted to marry my daughter, I told him that I welcome him into the family.....just never break her heart, and treat her with the respect that she deserves, and he'll never have a problem with me.

He told me that he would never hurt her, and always respect her....I told him that I will hold him to his word....

You guys have to understand...these were our babies....and in a way, always will be, no matter how old they get....
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deerly
Posted Jun 15th, 2009 at 9:43AM
Yeah, not over the internet. Maybe go over in person and bring her some flowers because she is not feeling well?

If not close enough to do that, pick up the phone and maybe SEND flowers. Show an interest in her health and be sympathetic and kind.

Try to be her friend, show that you are a decent person who her daughter would be lucky to marry.
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TouchMeNot
Posted Jun 15th, 2009 at 10:32AM
Do not contact Cassie Pearls mother over the internet. Go over to her house and present yourself in person. Dress decently and act like this is the most important *job* interview of your life! Your plans and hope to marry is going to change not just your life but joining your girlfriend's family. Be kind, sincere, and honest.

Good luck.
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laceset
Posted Jun 15th, 2009 at 3:07PM
First impression is everything! They are all right on this one.
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