Tell me what you think about this?

jesus. how rude of them. you have every reason to be angry. but this id often how families go. we all want perfect families and wish to get along... but more often than not, this is the kind of sh1t that goes down.

i feel so sorry for you :( xxx

Shame on your family. I feel for ya sis. Ignorance is abound. They are not worth their salt dear..ignore them..you will have the last laugh one day.

Blessed be.

I'm sorry they did that. Please don't judge all Christians by their actions. What they did was very rude; they should have put aside those differences and been there for you on your big day. Happiness and love are the same, no matter what your faith is.

I would have a hard time forgiving them as well, if it were me. I'm still not speaking to a girl friend who didn't come to my wedding for a similarly stupid reason.

I would be PISSED. I think that is extremely rude. It's a wedding too, something that is very important to you and as such should be important to them regardless of whether it is christian or pagan. I'm sorry that your own family treated you like that it's really not right..

Sorry, but I disagree with most of the posters. I think you are rude and you have no right to be angry about your family not coming to your wedding. It sounds like you are a very angry, disagreeable person and I wonder if you purposefully decided to have a pagan wedding to thumb your nose at your family. Obviously, they took it that way, so why would you expect them to come to your wedding on such short notice, knowing it was against their faith? If you had been raised pagan, that would be one thing, but since they raised you Christian, it would hypocritical of them to say your pagan ceremony was okay.

I think they are acting with integrity and that you need to grow up. If you had the courage of your convictions, you would not care whether your family was at your wedding and you would understand their motivation for staying away. That's why I think you're just being a spoiled brat. If I were your sister, I would ask you not to come to my wedding because you'll probably make a scene.

Wow! I totally empathize with you! Just remember people often shun what they don't understand and there is not a whole lot we can do about it...

Blessed Be!!

Wow, I'm really sorry to hear that your family did that to you. That sucks. What a pity that religious differences can be so divisive.
You're right, they're not worth your anger. I think what I would do is play nice out of respect for your sister (it's not her fault, this day is about her, not your extended family)--but that doesn't mean you have to talk to them.