Here's the way I look at it, and it's simple. The Dominant is thinking... "this is going to be good for her." The Dickhead is thinking... "this is going to be good for me."
LOL... had a lot of time to think about it... and I always come up with the same conclusion.
I myself still adore my submissive all the time. Even while she is being dominated I am concerned with her enjoying every second of what I am doing to her. If I was a dickhead then I would just be an ******* and not care as long as I got off.
Yes, it was already said but the difference is that the dominants decisions are always in your best interests :o)
Simple. Both are single-minded. The Dominant single-mindedly endeavors to please and pleasure his submissive. The dickhead absent mindedly tries to please only himself. Change genders as necessary. =)
The role of the Dominant is to force you to experience those things you want or need to experience but cannot of your free will experience on your own, and to do so out of love and respect for you as the submissive.
Self-confidence. Dickheads seem strong but they're actually indecisive and unstable. Boys who pretend to be men.
Not into BDSM....
wait...this isnt an open board?
WAIT! I am not allowed to post because I want to?
I demand a lawyer!
I still want my laywer!That is raci...nevermind...I am messican.
No but hey, your little "why bother" bit just begs people who aren't into it to answer...
Haha I guess I would be boring, I go for gals only, and nothing too exotic in the bedroom...and no dungeons haha. Heck lesbians don't even turn me on, I've got one special devise that can please one girl at a time, the rest of my body has to be focused on the same girl as it, pleasing more than one girl doesn't give me any kick whatsoever. Thats not to say I dont like to change things up, but no bdsm for me...
I am especially not into being dominated, or the girl having a ***** for use on me...that is really...gay...to put it no other way.
and that "bit" I posted was supposed to be but.
nevermind that bit was supposed to be bit...I misread my own post...